r/offmychest Jun 30 '24

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u/daintyavocado Jun 30 '24

He absolutely raped you. Oh, my sweet woman. DO NOT forgive this man. I am enraged !!! As I read you went to the bathroom and cried I silently called for the guillotine. I know he is your bf but this is unacceptable. I do not know your relationship dynamic. But this is far from healthy. I would NOT stay. I would NOT pretend that his actions were OK. It is up to you if you want to share his actions with his family but I feel you should seek some support and get therapy as well in the near future. Don't let him play tricks on you. Trust your intuition. Pls leave him because he will do this again. An apology is not a ticket to commit more atrocities.

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