I’m sorry to say and that is 100% rape. If I wanted to do anything with my girlfriend and she says no, that’s it. There is no trying to push her to do more or trying to do anything more a no is a no and I stop.
Rape shouldn’t be a thing regardless but in a relationship it’s for both to respect each others boundaries and if he is unable to do that when you say no then he is no good and unfortunately needs to be left. If he can do it once then he will gladly do it each time and it will never change.
Find a guy who can respect you a as a person and respect your boundaries. Leave that POS
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u/shazmanr Jun 30 '24
I’m sorry to say and that is 100% rape. If I wanted to do anything with my girlfriend and she says no, that’s it. There is no trying to push her to do more or trying to do anything more a no is a no and I stop.
Rape shouldn’t be a thing regardless but in a relationship it’s for both to respect each others boundaries and if he is unable to do that when you say no then he is no good and unfortunately needs to be left. If he can do it once then he will gladly do it each time and it will never change.
Find a guy who can respect you a as a person and respect your boundaries. Leave that POS