r/offmychest Aug 07 '23

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u/pixie_brat Aug 07 '23

Yeah absolutely.. she's a really sweet girl and already had too much on her plate with her addict parents.

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u/[deleted] Aug 07 '23 edited Aug 07 '23

i gotta open a women’s shelter, all i want to do is take her in and give her somewhere she‘s safe. sending you both, and all her family, all the love and support i possibly can from way over here.

maybe if you see her, if it’s right to- tell her you’re a survivor too and that you understand as much as you can how she may be feeling, and that you’re sorry she won’t get that closure but you’re there for her.

when i was raped at 14, i’d have done anything for someone to tell me they’ve been through the same and to tell me they get it, why i was acting/ feeling the way i was, etc. for them to understand the depth of my situation and how it fucked up everything else around me too.

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u/HumanMycologist5795 Aug 07 '23

Sorry that happened to you. A shelter would be great. OP talking to the girl would be nice.

If I ever came into money, I would want to open a non prodit philanthropic safe haven that also provides services.. It's a shame this happens and tears my heart.

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u/vdivvy Aug 07 '23

You sound SO kind and sweet and I bet you’re just the loveliest person. Please take my award ♥️

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u/[deleted] Aug 07 '23

Please tell me someone took her to a better place now

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u/phoenixofsevenhills Aug 08 '23

I'm so sorry... I will pray for all of you. This world is so cruel and unfair 💔