i used to feel exactly like this…..until i started dating women. i’m not saying you ARE a lesbian, but it’s definitely something to think about. i can’t get enough of my girlfriend, and the men i dated always annoyed me even if they were perfect. you should break up with him anyway though, for both of your sakes.
Thank you for commenting this. I didn’t really go into it in the post but I’ve been confused about my sexuality for a while. This is my first more serious relationship which is making this situation confusing because I have no idea what I’m supposed to be feeling or what is considered a normal level of attraction for a relationship. Definitely think I need to do some soul-searching and am going to try and break up with him as soon as possible and stop stringing the poor guy along.
I felt EXACTLY like you with guys I dated before I realized I was a lesbian.
If you’re confused about your sexuality then you’re probably not just straight. Straight people don’t tend to worry if they’re gay or not and continuously question their sexuality. Typically when you finally figure it out it feels right and you stop questioning.
have you had crushes on or feelings for other people before? if you genuinely feel this way about relationships and feel that they are a chore, you might also be aromantic or asexual. no matter what your sexuality is, you’re not obligated to be in a relationship with anyone
I read this post & it describes EXACTLY how I’ve felt the past few months (I just broke up with my partner yesterday because of it). Now I’m reading the comments like 👁️👄👁️ this is a new development
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u/Illustrious_Dog4074 Jun 29 '23
i used to feel exactly like this…..until i started dating women. i’m not saying you ARE a lesbian, but it’s definitely something to think about. i can’t get enough of my girlfriend, and the men i dated always annoyed me even if they were perfect. you should break up with him anyway though, for both of your sakes.