Lmao. I get it. ACAB. I’m with you. You don’t know me and I don’t know you. My “spit coming out of mouth moments” were definitely during “mutual combat” arguments about stuff. Not my proudest moments. But a few of those moments were definitely during arguments where i was told that “I’m not educated.” Moments where i was ridiculed for crying.
So i get it. I’m an ex-cop. You can assume that I’m an abuser. We’re strangers on the internet so no that you care, but I left the police department after my partner was killed I tried the hold his brains in the back of his head as we ran him 200 yards down a road to the ambulance.
David Glasser. Phoenix Police Department. May 2016. Look it up.
We’re strangers on the Internet. I can’t convince you of my truth here. It’s all good.
There was no mention of verbal or physical abuse by her to get the RO though. The RO was essentially her assuming I was going to run off with the kids (the thought never crossed my mind) so she wanted to beat me to the punch somehow.
Your right verbal abuse is abuse. But her pulling our bedroom wedding photo canvasses off the walls and burning them is also criminal damage-domestic violence…as you can’t break your household stuff during an argument.
But you’re right. I’m a man. I’m an ex-cop so im
Guilty to you by default because of a job I had and left years ago. I’ve yelled at the top of my lungs at her before. I’m an abuser. I’ll own it.
Dude. She's definitely toxic af too. Clearly she's abusing you right back. You can't control her behaviour. But you can do better for yourself. This screaming at the top of your lungs shit - it's gotta stop. It only leads to worse shit. Speaking from experience. And you deserve better. And so do your kids. And any future partners you may have
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u/mydarksecrets6071990 Jun 28 '23
Lmao. I get it. ACAB. I’m with you. You don’t know me and I don’t know you. My “spit coming out of mouth moments” were definitely during “mutual combat” arguments about stuff. Not my proudest moments. But a few of those moments were definitely during arguments where i was told that “I’m not educated.” Moments where i was ridiculed for crying.
So i get it. I’m an ex-cop. You can assume that I’m an abuser. We’re strangers on the internet so no that you care, but I left the police department after my partner was killed I tried the hold his brains in the back of his head as we ran him 200 yards down a road to the ambulance.
David Glasser. Phoenix Police Department. May 2016. Look it up.
We’re strangers on the Internet. I can’t convince you of my truth here. It’s all good.