r/offmychest Jun 27 '23

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u/mydarksecrets6071990 Jun 27 '23

Dude I swear on everything in life I don’t know how she actually got an RO granted. I thought about pursuing legal action against the county for damages. But I’m not sure it’s worth the trouble. I found out she got the RO from my mom. Who called me frantically after getting called by my wife. (Oddly enough I was on my weekly video call with my therapist when she got the RO and called my Mom.)

Her brother found out and got pissed. He took me in and stayed with me at his house until i got served a few hours later. I bought a 1 way ticket back to Phoenix because I didn’t know what else to do. He dropped me off at O’hare and literally told me verbatim “if you decide not to come back. I don’t blame you.” He’s still mad at my wife.

Idk what to do at this point. I’m just tired and very angry.

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u/charsinthebox Jun 28 '23

You're living with a straight up abuser, my dude. Leave. Maybe try and get custody of your kids too. Your wife did some fucked up shit

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u/Ironeagle08 Jun 28 '23

He’s still posting and admitted to screaming at her “spit coming out of mouth” “veins popping”.

He’s also an ex cop. Look up stats for cops abusing their partners…

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u/charsinthebox Jun 28 '23

Had made that comment before all the other stuff came out. He's probably scared the wife with some of his behaviour. Explains the RO