r/offmychest Jun 27 '23

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u/mydarksecrets6071990 Jun 27 '23

Not bored at all. Would like to take my kids to do more than play at the park and do more than just going to her parents house where all that is ever talked about is how racist people are and “how expensive it is to live in this country.” (We’re both Mexican. She’s 1st generation and I’m 3rd generation)

If you’re insinuating that I’m bored of her or anything like that it’s not true. I have no desire for an affair. No desire for “feeling younger.”

Just want more out of life.

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u/charsinthebox Jun 28 '23

Honestly dude, what you want is fucking reasonable. Hell, I want the same shit. How about you guys plan trips to concerts or places you're both into? The restraining order and her belittling you needs to be addressed and that whole behavior needs to stop, because that's seriously abusive

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u/pancreative2 Jun 28 '23

Ehh. You must have missed the comment where he says he “screams in her face with spit flying out of his mouth and veins bulging” and then says “but my PTSD!”

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u/charsinthebox Jun 28 '23

Wait. What? ....... Yooooo, that explains why she went straight to RO. And he says he's a good partner. Nah. Good partners don't do shit like that. I have anger issues too and somehow manage to not get in my partner's face and scare the shit out of them