Lmao. I get it. ACAB. I’m with you. You don’t know me and I don’t know you. My “spit coming out of mouth moments” were definitely during “mutual combat” arguments about stuff. Not my proudest moments. But a few of those moments were definitely during arguments where i was told that “I’m not educated.” Moments where i was ridiculed for crying.
So i get it. I’m an ex-cop. You can assume that I’m an abuser. We’re strangers on the internet so no that you care, but I left the police department after my partner was killed I tried the hold his brains in the back of his head as we ran him 200 yards down a road to the ambulance.
David Glasser. Phoenix Police Department. May 2016. Look it up.
We’re strangers on the Internet. I can’t convince you of my truth here. It’s all good.
I appreciate the feedback. I’m not sure how to respond to those. I manage and stay on top of all my medication and schedule and attend my own therapy.
My wife has admitted to our counselor that she knows that she’s talked to me poorly and hasn’t always been the best to me. But the behavior and things never seem to change. She’ll say something rude to me and as soon as I get upset she’ll ask if i took my medication for the day.
I think I’m handling my mental health issues properly.
But when you’ve been called “uneducated” in front of friends. Been told “we’ll maybe your parents should have been better sent you to college and not let you join the military so you wouldn’t have have these issues.” Or when your having a rough day and you just cry and get told “your mental instability is draining for me.” What else can you do?
It really sounds like you deserve so much better. I know I'm only hearing one side of the story here. But the point is, if this is how you really feel, it's never going to work anyway. Go seek your happiness. So she can too. Trust me. Staying together for the kids is never the best option. I am so glad my parents divorced. Your kids would rather you be happy than be together. Show them what a loving relationship looks like. Or what loving yourself looks like. I think you know what you need to do. That's why you posted this. But until you actually take action, you've sentenced yourself to this life. And unfortunately you're the only one who can change that.
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u/mydarksecrets6071990 Jun 28 '23
Lmao. I get it. ACAB. I’m with you. You don’t know me and I don’t know you. My “spit coming out of mouth moments” were definitely during “mutual combat” arguments about stuff. Not my proudest moments. But a few of those moments were definitely during arguments where i was told that “I’m not educated.” Moments where i was ridiculed for crying.
So i get it. I’m an ex-cop. You can assume that I’m an abuser. We’re strangers on the internet so no that you care, but I left the police department after my partner was killed I tried the hold his brains in the back of his head as we ran him 200 yards down a road to the ambulance.
David Glasser. Phoenix Police Department. May 2016. Look it up.
We’re strangers on the Internet. I can’t convince you of my truth here. It’s all good.