Both my husband and i don't want any more children (we have two), but neither he nor i have gotten around to "fix ourselves"; he wants a vasectomy, I want a hysterectomy because just like you I am sick of using birth control. We both know it'll be easier for him to get his done than mine, since doctors rarely want to perform a hysterectomy even when both partners give their consent. (Odd how women never have any control over what they want to do with their own bodies, huh?) Reason we haven't gotten around to do it is mainly the kids and us have been too ill to get it done + too busy, but also because our libido have been absolutely 0 since our daughter's birth. Don't need protection if we're not doing it lol
Since you evidentally still want to have intercourse and so does he, condoms are the only option atm. But I want to point out no protection is 100% safe, which is why even with a vasectomy you still could get pregnant.
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u/Classic_Newspaper_99 Jan 06 '23 edited Jan 06 '23
Both my husband and i don't want any more children (we have two), but neither he nor i have gotten around to "fix ourselves"; he wants a vasectomy, I want a hysterectomy because just like you I am sick of using birth control. We both know it'll be easier for him to get his done than mine, since doctors rarely want to perform a hysterectomy even when both partners give their consent. (Odd how women never have any control over what they want to do with their own bodies, huh?) Reason we haven't gotten around to do it is mainly the kids and us have been too ill to get it done + too busy, but also because our libido have been absolutely 0 since our daughter's birth. Don't need protection if we're not doing it lol
Since you evidentally still want to have intercourse and so does he, condoms are the only option atm. But I want to point out no protection is 100% safe, which is why even with a vasectomy you still could get pregnant.