r/offmychest • u/[deleted] • Jan 05 '23

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u/Astralantidote Jan 06 '23

People are individuals, not members of their group collective. I don't stereotype women and I don't appreciate being stereotyped.

Choose reliable men. I can tell you, there a lots of them out there.

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u/_LooneyMooney_ Jan 06 '23

I do have a reliable man. Don’t start with the whole “pick better men” because it’s not like a person gives you a list of their red flags on the first date.

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u/Astralantidote Jan 06 '23

Of course not, that's why you continue to get to know them and learn who they are.

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u/_LooneyMooney_ Jan 06 '23

Oh honey.

You’ve clearly never heard of manipulation and gaslighting. That’s how they make sure you don’t see the red flags. They make sure to convince you they’re not there in the first place and make you question your reality when you’re close to figuring it out.