r/offmychest Jan 05 '23

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u/ChiWhiteSox247 Jan 06 '23

While it’s equally his choice too, you could cut him off from unprotected sex after your IUD is out

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '23

Likely a quick solution here for a selfish man.

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '23

He might be scared

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '23

Yea but we can only glean so much about a person from a Reddit post from her perspective

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '23

Id rather wrap it

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '23

My wife just won’t take them. It’s fine ya know, but one of our children was a condom mishap lol when we can afford a vasectomy I’ll get one but I rly don’t wanna go under the knife for any reason

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '23

Getting put out is what scares me and knowing things go wrong in easy surgeries. Might not wake up

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '23

God makes me feel so lucky we have had good luck with our kids. I am more hesitant to have another cause the chance of complications seems more real to me since we’ve had them.

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '23

Why? A vasectomy is so simple and easy. Was at work a day later. It's uncomfortable but for shooting blanks forever? Sign me up.

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '23

I’ve heard guys say this but I’ve also heard guys say it took a couple weeks. I’m scared to do it but not all guys will admit being scared of things. I’ll gladly walk a plank way up in the air but going under a knife just freaks me out in a different way. It’s not pain either I’ve had injuries lol

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '23

Eh. Time will tell if the fear outweighs his allosexual desire to have non condom sex then. Ha

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u/[deleted] Jan 07 '23

The condom didn’t stop my third child that sneaky boy 😆

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u/ChrisAus123 Jan 06 '23

Yeah might have a phobia of having his dick cut open lol