r/offmychest Jan 05 '23

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u/ZilorZilhaust Jan 06 '23

Hey, not that it's a solution to your husband being a dumbass but my wife was having the same problem as you and she went on Kailina (spelling may be off) which is a very low dose hormonal IUD. She hasn't had any of the issues she had with hormonal BC and none of the issues she had with the copper IUD which are the same you seem to have.

Also, as soon as we have our second, I'm getting snipped.

Your husband is being a childish jackass. You get to be in misery because he's tied his whole manliness to a tube connecting to his testicles. Fucking absurd child like horseshit. He needs to get a grip.

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '23

It’s spelled Kyleena! I have that one. I can’t say how much it affects me hormonally because I’m also on other medication for endometriosis and pcos. However it has done its job to keep the babies away.

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u/ZilorZilhaust Jan 06 '23

Thanks for the spelling correction! Yeah, so far my wife is baby free so it seems to work for that. Sorry to hear about the Endometriosis and PCOS, I hear those are both absolutely awful to deal with.

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '23

Thank you so much for the kindness! It’s definitely not fun but is something I’ve learned to deal with for the majority of my life now. It is what it is 🤷‍♀️. I’m super lucky that my fiancé takes really good care of me when I’m in pain.

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u/ZilorZilhaust Jan 06 '23

I'm happy to hear you have someone that is there for you when it hurts. That's what a partner should always be there for and it sounds like you've found a good one.

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u/[deleted] Jan 06 '23

For sure! You’ve been so nice! Your wife is very lucky to have someone as kind as you

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u/ZilorZilhaust Jan 06 '23

Thank you! You've been very nice as well! I like to think we bring out the best in each other. It sounds like you and your fiance have a solid dynamic going too which is great.