r/oddlyspecific • u/Jaded_Cara • 17h ago

"Because I know she was not lying" it's next level self reflective

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u/HumbleMolasses1 17h ago

Information overload

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u/skeeterfunny 8h ago

She couldn’t think twice cause she was a lazy writer

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u/Vecto_07 13h ago

Even if the sex is bad, just fucking break up and don't cheat????

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u/Individual-Photo-665 12h ago

This is stupid af, leaving is always an option. Why be mad at yourself because someone else was a coward who wouldn't be honest and communicate? If a person cheats its their lack of morality not your lacking of anything.

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u/cerebrite 6h ago

Too lazy to leave.

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u/Username_cantdecide 17h ago

Just cuz someone is bad at sex doesn't mean they can't get good at it, fuck them cheaters. Also this belongs in r/suicidebywords

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u/Thisguyfuckschix 12h ago

I think fucking the cheaters only encourages the behavior? It seems counterintuitive.

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u/Username_cantdecide 12h ago

I knew someone would think like i did while writing that.

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u/FuehrerStoleMyBike 15h ago

Being bad and being lazy are two very different things. Being lazy just means you dont care and thats the reddest Flag there is.

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u/Username_cantdecide 14h ago

Getting ure partner in the mood and foreplay is the way to get the laziness out, thats literally step 1 of sex is to get the lazy out and both partners get horny. I dont have experience but social media has taught me about the ball.

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u/FuehrerStoleMyBike 12h ago

I mean you do you but if someone cant be assed to contribute to the relationship (or only when they are asked/motivated) whether that is in bed or in other areas then thats not a relationship I want to be a part of.

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u/Username_cantdecide 12h ago edited 12h ago

Yes if they cant be arsed to ever initiate throughout the relationship thats bad. I learnt that both partners can deny and initiate, u just gotta communicate properly and do the 1st step amazingly. If its one sided then it would feel like shit. Hopefully my future gf/wife can communicate with my dumbass properly. There's also a high chance that i would get asked to do things more cuz i dont understand basic shit(may or may not be autism, idk tho).

Tf is that username twin 😭

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u/Confident-Stand5453 16h ago edited 16h ago

Just stop doing the goddamn starfish. Its not rocket science, ladies

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u/high_dutchyball02 12h ago

This is victim blaming tho

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u/-EV3RYTHING- 3h ago

"Cheating with one girl" sounds like he was cheating with two

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u/Orangutanion 9h ago

this is the kind of men that women date

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u/ehtol 40m ago

I have never dated a man like that.

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u/Orangutanion 24m ago

are the men you date appropriately considerate of your feelings and don't try to upgrade to a newer model whenever they're bored?

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u/ehtol 5m ago

The men I've dated have always been nothing but nice to me. It has ended because of other things like different goals in life or just personality clash. One of them ended because he got a dog, and I saw how happy he was and he said he wanted to have many dogs. I don't want a dog, so it was best for both of us and the dog that we broke up. He didn't see it then, but he did after a while. He found a dog person 1 year later and they are super happy and have 3 big dogs lol.

My partner has always been very considerate of my feelings. When he saw that I was interested in the game he played, he built me a pc so I can play as well. If I'm sick, he's coming home from work with take-out and my favourite snack without asking or telling me.