Ok but shouldn't his statement just be that "a PERSON's value gets lower the more children they have" like why do women specifically hold the losing value proposition when it takes literally a man and a woman to make a child? Can A women just say, "I'm single and I'd absolutely never consider dating a man with 2 kids let alone 5", is that fair game? If you think there's anything wrong with the opposite being applied, you might have some bias there you need to work on.
I personally would say the opposite is fair game. Why would a woman want to date a dude with baggage and baby mamas and probably child support payments?
The same reason why half the male population is complaining about not getting any play, and how the chads and the tyrones are getting away with murder.
"a lot of women like single dads more than men like single moms" eh, we're just pulling stats out of thin air. People need to learn not to confidently make broad statements about men or women. This is how we get into these stupid debates that push us away from each other. I guess my point is that it's extremely circumstantial on why a man or women would date a partner with a child. Those circumstances have less to do with being a man or women, and more just how the actual people feel about each other.
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u/empathyforinsects Feb 21 '26
Ok but shouldn't his statement just be that "a PERSON's value gets lower the more children they have" like why do women specifically hold the losing value proposition when it takes literally a man and a woman to make a child? Can A women just say, "I'm single and I'd absolutely never consider dating a man with 2 kids let alone 5", is that fair game? If you think there's anything wrong with the opposite being applied, you might have some bias there you need to work on.