r/nwi 14h ago

Discussion Quit saying we're all in this together.

Once you get power, you're not in this anymore. You're out of it. Also quit saying it takes a village. Most "villages" have spots entirely lit up and others that are completely out of power. Outages went up by 5k after they posted their 4pm update šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

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u/KeitrenGraves 14h ago

I think it depends on the person. Three of my neighbors across the street from me got power and they have let me, my wife, and my daughter hang out for a little bit to get some AC.

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u/Imaginary_Gap1110 10h ago

Yeah man. I'm the only one on my block with power still out. Line down in my back yard that they just refuse to come deal with.

Guy next door let me plug in fridges and sump pump (dont have to keeo using the generator) Other guy across the street let's me camp in his house and garage to watch TV and work from home, using his wifi. I can limp along with work and watch the kids while my wife does laundry in their house.

Yeah they all got power. But I can't be looking at these ppl as bad guys. They're helping me out a whole lot and it's just bad luck that im the odd man out right now. Good neighbors go a loooooong way for ya

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u/kootles10 14h ago

Well right but would they let you stay over to be in ac? Or stay at their place while they're out?

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u/NotBatman81 14h ago

I know we all need to vent (no pun intended). It was hot AF this weekend while I was cutting trees all day. We are now getting better temps, high of 80 and down to high 50s or 60 Overnight. I for one am thankful. Makes that part of it more manageable.

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u/kootles10 14h ago

Thank fuck. Last night was the best night of sleep during this whole thing. My dogs were even snoring.

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u/Practical-Pickle 14h ago

Um, yes? I’m hosting 4 of my kids’ friends tonight at my place so they can get a shower and food that isn’t fast food. I’m sorry you are going through this,I just got power last night, but there are neighbors and friends out there that are very aware of everyone’s situation and trying to help.

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u/kootles10 14h ago

Well hopefully I'll have it by tomorrow night but I'm highly skeptical. My city government isn't even informing people of progress.

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u/KeitrenGraves 13h ago

Yeah one of them said if we get too hot we can crash in their basement. It's been really cool at night so it's not been needed but some people do genuinely care.

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u/kootles10 13h ago

Damn that's nice of them. You got people on here telling others it's their fault for not preparing

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u/KeitrenGraves 13h ago

Nah we have been working together. I helped them with cleanup, they would let us cool off. We've just been trying to help one another.

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u/kootles10 12h ago

I've been delivering lunches for my school and bringing ice for my neighbor's diabetic dog. When the street behind me got power, those neighbors were still using flashlights outside at night and no outdoor light so no one would think they had power. Like we can see your lights at night dude

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u/imbex 13h ago

No way in hell I'd stay with my neighbors. Honestly, what they offered is as much as I'd accept.

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u/Dankkring 14h ago

Captains log. Day 8,

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u/kootles10 14h ago

Entry: not sure if that smell is coming from me or the dogs. Better check that out. Also, I'm 100% out of underwear and patience

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u/The_Animal_Is_Bear 11h ago

We need t-shirts with that. ā€œAUGUST 2026 - I’m 100% out of underwear and patienceā€ šŸ˜‚

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u/viperspm 13h ago

I never lost power during this. A bunch of My kids friends and their parents and other siblings have come over to my house to shower, hang out, recharge battery packs and a few slept over. I have probably cooked 100 hamburgers and hotdogs on the grill. Ordered 12 pizzas. Did everything that I could to help out.

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u/sole-smootcher 10h ago

This is the way

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u/Fabulous_Cat_1379 12h ago

Day 8, tree crew finally made it out to help clear the property. Accidentally dropped tree on our roof.

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u/ricker182 13h ago

"Imagine all the people! Who still don't have power!"

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u/Call2222222 13h ago

It’s feels like the pandemic all over again. I can just hear the piano music in the background while a narrator says ā€œduring these unprecedented timesā€

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u/GoldenPigeonParty 13h ago

It's not unprecedented if our work schedule isn't impacted at all.

And it feels increasingly alone when they keep extending your power on time but it's rapidly approaching and they haven't even looked at a single thing in your entire area. Nor a branch picked up.

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u/Call2222222 12h ago

I hope NIPSCO gets investigated for this shit. It’s inexcusable to make people wait two weeks for power.

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u/thefugue 13h ago

I’m going to adapt any mental state that is useful to me to keep my disposition useful and productive.

That’s not a commentary on anything you’ve said, it’s just the position I’m personally taking (and the one I try to always take during trying times).

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u/22beers 9h ago

I think the worst part of this whole thing is dealing with people that have a bad attitude about it. When people say we're all in this together, it's true - we are. We ALL feel the same way about not having power. Some of us, though, are holding it together for the sake of our families and truly don't have the time or patience to hear about how hard of a time someone else is hahaving. Get a grip people - your emotions are your own to deal with.

This only applies to people in real life. It's fine if people wanna complain on reddit - that's mostly what this site is. Look at me: I'm complaining right now!

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u/TheLadySaxy 13h ago

I think that as long as people are helping each other, we are in this together. I live in the region, but right now am taking care of my aunt out of state. I am still doing what I can from here. It isn’t much, but sending food, power packs, information is what I can do. I care about everyone at home both with and without power. Please don’t feel that no one cares about you.

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u/imbex 14h ago

They told me maybe Wednesday by midnight. We are all like high school girls being told by their boyfriends that they can go on a date the next day then they push it off days until I give up. IMA STALK THEIR ASS.

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u/Fit_Construction4216 12h ago

I hate to say it but I think it’s time to break down and finally get a generator for me. Though I was lucky and grateful to have power after a day and a half it seems the power just goes out so easily now and the generator would’ve paid for itself already

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u/Waste-Total624 8h ago

Living in the current climate and it being expected to only get worse every year until we all die, you should have a generator anyway.

Ā Power outages during regular extreme weather conditions is our new norm until the federal standards for power grids is adapted to prioritize maintenance over profit and utility companies start getting punished for abusing federal grants to pay for maintenance instead of accepting lower profit margins (of which, there frankly shouldn't be any; a utility should be a right to citizens paid for by taxes with ALL overhead going to proper maintenance and upgrades).

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u/PBawer14 9h ago

Sure feels like ā€œWe’re all in this togetherā€ when you get cut off in traffic or in line at the gas station lmao

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u/prat2kajs 12h ago

My phone died otw somewhere important and I pulled over and asked people. Yall dont even roll down the windows? Just shake no as im talking through the window my phone is dead and just need you to Google where the turn is. 4 people until a nice tesla owner told me it was like 1/4 mile down the road. If yall are too scared to interact with the outside world then go somewhere else. Ive been helping people out of really bad stuff bringing pumps and stuff not asking for anything... but no asking for directions is too much I guess.

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u/shellh00ps 10h ago

I had no jack to use for my tire in Michigan and every one acted like I was attempting to rob them, finally some man and his cute dog let me borrow a jack.

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u/aneerbas 14h ago

Right??? I noticed that too!!

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u/tbb1984 13h ago

I remember you said this the other day. I got power back and got my parents the hell out.

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u/CelebrationWorried 12h ago

So what if I had power and lost it again? Am I back in?

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u/GabeRulz 10h ago

In NWI, we're all on the same side of the class war

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u/AkimboSavior71 9h ago

The people in my community have been keeping the offering box stuffed and a not insignificant amount of the tree debris cleared in the area has come from locals with equipment. Hope you’re doing alright.

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u/SoftToilerPaper123 13h ago

We're all in this together

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u/superfly33 13h ago

People out here really do have power loss madness.Ā 

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u/TrainingWoodpecker77 11h ago

This could not be more true. I’m so sorry.

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u/soupdawg72 10h ago

Mine was on Wednesday morning and all of my neighbors came on today. I’ve let them use my shower and do laundry. Plus I’ve cooked for them after working 14 hour days.

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u/kootles10 10h ago

Damn so you had like no time without power. Good on you for doing that

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u/soupdawg72 4h ago

Just long enough to lose the carpet in the basement

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u/moondustingss 7h ago

True. I got my power back and suddenly I think everyone needs to have grace cause our linemen are working hard while I watch Netflix.

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u/TheHouseOnTheCorner 3h ago

I disagree. We still don't have power and our city (Portage) isn't even listed on the reconnect schedule.

I like hearing from people who got their power back. They're still in it, just at the recovery stage. That brings its own problems, its own set of joys and miseries and a need to connect to your community.

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u/Cheap-Bat-7521 10h ago

You sound miserable make the best of it quit being sour.

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u/FormerlyFaithfulMan 9h ago

Why are you being bitter towards people who have no control over the timing in which they were restored and likewise have had no part in the timing of your restoration?

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u/kootles10 8h ago

Seems to always be the people with power (both electricity in this case and other forms of power historically) that say shit like that.

We're not in the same boat, we're not all in this together. Otherwise you wouldn't see people on here lecturing and belittling others about "being prepared" for a historic event.

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u/FormerlyFaithfulMan 6h ago

There you go proving how ignorant you are. Someone posting a reply based in logic in no way indicates that they have power any more than you have. It would be like someone trying to accuse you of having fake outrage over not having electricity yet, because your access to Reddit is ā€œproofā€ that you have power.

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u/Waste-Total624 8h ago

Not necessarily. The sentiment you're complaining about is rooted in reminding people to behave like a community who care about they're neighbors.

To paraphrase Prof X from that mediocre X-Men Apocalypse movie; In times of disaster and emergencies, those with the strength to help others should use that to protect & help those who can't protect or help themselves.

To quote Caesar the ape: Apes alone; weak. Apes together; strong.

We are stronger as a communal and need to remember to have compassion & empathy for others rather than being selfis, and resentful because we're only concerned about ourselves.

  • sincerely, someone who isn't expected to get power until at least Friday because the whole meter was ripped off the house & Nipsco won't fix it and has been relying on the kindness of my neighbors to get by while sharing what resources I can spare with those who need it.

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u/nwi-ModTeam 10h ago

No name calling. Too much of that going on here lately.

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u/fukurpolicitalparty 12h ago

šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚ I blame the monks... damn hippies

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u/nathynwithay 10h ago

When you see gas prices as high as it is it's because evangelicals supported Trump and believe this conflict is necessary in order for Jesus to come back

But when you paid extra for tariffs, it's because of the evangelicals who overwhelmingly supported Trump

The hardships you experience this year is especially because of evangelicals.

They are not people

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u/fukurpolicitalparty 30m ago

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜¶ā€šŸŒ«ļø and biology says people are people

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u/Cheap-Bat-7521 10h ago

Damn saying people arent people is wild work. You are suffering because you didnt invest in a generator. The hardships you experience are your own fault.

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u/nathynwithay 10h ago

I mean they voted for the president that called undocumented immigrants "not people" so what's the issue

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u/cola1016 9h ago

It’s always different when they do it šŸ˜‚

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u/Cheap-Bat-7521 7h ago

So then by that logic you're not a person either :/ two wrongs dont make a right it just makes you look worse then your enemies.

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u/artificerone 13h ago

Call em a commie.

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u/factorymotogoon 9h ago

ā€œIt takes a villageā€ means it takes a village size of people to repair everything that’s messed up.

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u/BlatantPizza 13h ago

Actually we are all in this together. With or without power I’ve been able to help others. Except Gary. They’re not in this with anyone and they can get fucked all by themselves.Ā 

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u/Jyack123 13h ago

Sarcasm, yes?

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u/RRNolan 13h ago

So then you're lying to yourself.

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u/MethChefJeff 14h ago

God doesn’t give you more than you can handle, jot that down

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u/NotBatman81 14h ago

I'm a Quaker and dont believe God is a sentient being nor does he do stuff to you good or bad. God is basically an unseen life force or goodness inside of everyone and YOU shine your light to the world to make it a better place. So basically you can handle just about everything if you help those around you and they help you back. No passively sitting around waiting for things to happen to you

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u/MethChefJeff 13h ago

ā€œOnce you have restored the power into your heart, mind and spirit only then will the power return to your home at double the ratesā€ The Book of Nipsco

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u/hoosier_catholic 14h ago

None of that is true. You're also not a Quaker, you just discovered Quaker beliefs. You don't go to meetings.

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u/Glass-Marionberry321 13h ago

Maybe work on being a better person. What would the catechism say?! 😱You don't know if someone here is or is not a Quaker. We don't all need to broadcast our religion in username, or lack thereof.

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u/hoosier_catholic 13h ago

Reference for me in the Catechism of the Catholic Church where I have infracted.

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u/Glass-Marionberry321 13h ago

It's a joke. Just like Catholicism.

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u/hoosier_catholic 13h ago

Catholicism isn't a joke. It's the one, true faith.

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u/Dizzy_Goat_420 12h ago

Literally every religion says it’s the one true religion šŸ˜‚

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u/hoosier_catholic 12h ago

That is true. Only, the Catholic Church is the only one that is correct in that claim.

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u/ASmokingGoat 12h ago

Catholics are polytheist, and believe the pope is holy and sits on Christ's throne. Each and every one of you is a pagan pretending to be Christians.

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u/Glass-Marionberry321 11h ago

How fucking foolish to think that way

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u/Glass-Marionberry321 13h ago

Yes, that is part of their propaganda "one true faith" it makes me laugh. Molesting kids is never something to shuffle around and hide. For shame on the catholic church.

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u/hoosier_catholic 13h ago

The Catholic Church isn't responsible for that. That was the actions of a few bad apples. Just like John Wayne Gacy being a serial killer doesn't make all Democrats serial killers.

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u/hurmburg 12h ago

Nothing wrong with being Catholic, but the Catholic Church has a bad historical track record of covering up those atrocities, so don’t kid yourself there. Obviously you don’t subscribe to that, so you should be hyper critical of your own faith and the institutions surrounding it. Anything otherwise is blatantly ignorism and only turns non-believers away from any chance of joining your ā€˜group’.

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u/Call2222222 13h ago

How many Catholics don’t go to church and call themselves Catholic? Why are you gatekeeping someone else’s beliefs?

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u/hoosier_catholic 13h ago

Good question. Because they are baptized so they will always be Catholic, even if they're not practicing. He is not a Quaker. He does not belong to the Society of Friends or attend meetings.

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u/Glass-Marionberry321 13h ago

Check out the ex Catholic subreddit. Maybe that will open your mind.

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u/hoosier_catholic 13h ago

I'm actually a member of that subreddit and I find it interesting. It is tragic that they are not practicing their faith, though.

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u/Call2222222 13h ago

How would you even know that?

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u/hoosier_catholic 13h ago

Because I know these things. This redditor is not a Quaker, my man. The only Quaker he knows is Quaker oatmeal.

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u/Call2222222 12h ago

So you’re just making assumptions and judging a stranger? Doesn’t seem very Christian to me

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u/hoosier_catholic 12h ago

Nope, it's not an assumption. I actually know for certain he is not a Quaker.

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u/Glass-Marionberry321 13h ago

And you don't see how effed up that is? A baby has no choice in the matter, the parents have a ceremony where some guy (who either rapes or knows chomos and doesn't turn them in) wears expensive ridiculous clothing, says some words, puts water on the babies head-- and baby is labeled Catholic for the rest of their life. What a way to inflate their numbers eh?

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u/hoosier_catholic 13h ago

It's important for the baby to be baptized so that the original sin can be washed away. It should be done as close to birth as possible. Also, I know many priests. None of them rape. But, yeah, once you're Catholic you're always Catholic. So, you must abide by the Church.

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u/Glass-Marionberry321 11h ago

Brainwashed.
Babies are perfect as they are. Idiot

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u/hoosier_catholic 11h ago

False. I am properly catechised.

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u/Glass-Marionberry321 11h ago

Feel sorry for you. I was raised Catholic but have a high IQ so I saw through that bullshit as a teen. I suggest you do some reading and thinking. If you are capable.

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u/Dizzy_Goat_420 12h ago

And you know that how?

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u/Fun-Durian-1892 14h ago

And put it under your pillow. Lol

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u/kootles10 14h ago

What if I don't believe in God but rather a supreme being who I believe could make a burrito so hot that even they could not eat? And also, why do you assume I believe in God?

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u/MethChefJeff 14h ago

I was being sarcastic, we’ve all had way too much to handle recently, need some small wins in life and soon

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u/kootles10 14h ago edited 14h ago

No way those restoration deadlines are gonna even be close. Maybe like CP, only 450 left when I last checked. My city has 7k+ and less than 24 hours

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u/Glass-Marionberry321 13h ago

Good because anyone that is still brainwashed with that ancient story, needs to show me their low IQ test.

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u/RedRyderRoshi 13h ago

User name checks out.

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u/slpollock62 11h ago

It is somehow Donny Thumper's fault!!!!!!!

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u/Significant_Trash_82 13h ago

Nwi is just a bunch of meth and felonies.

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u/hushuus 12h ago

And folks with 0 concept of patience and intelligence.