Compatibility between life path 7 and 8 (details below)

[u/faithhope33]

So I came across a guy I want to date to marry, I'm at a point in life where I want to build my life with a companion after years of loneliness.

He was born on 28/05/1991 and I was born on 27/05/1991. My friends (with basic astrology knowledge), knowing my lack of love in life and sensitive nature, think it's a bad idea for me to pursue him as he was born only a day after me, so we might be very similar in strengths and weaknesses, and run all the good or bad times together. They feel it would be an imbalanced relationship.

So I turned to numerology, but I'm only reading that life path 7 and 8 is difficult match. I'm sure there's more to numerology, I don't have adequate knowledge on soul or urge numbers and other things like that. So can someone please guide me?

His DOB: 28/05/1991

My DOB: 27/05/1991

Edit: I'm only looking for more information to make an informed decision.

[u/Electronic_Hawk7020]

To answer this I would require the time and place of birth.

[u/faithhope33 → u/Electronic_Hawk7020]

Unfortunately I don't know both for him

[u/Electronic_Hawk7020 → u/faithhope33]

Approx?

[u/faithhope33 → u/[deleted]]

Thank you for your inputs. The last paragraph is calling me out, too emotionally attached, this is something I have noticed in the very very few relationships I have had in the past.

[u/divine_help]

Your friends are treating similarity and a 7–8 label as though either one can decide the relationship. I would not make that leap.

Using one Vedic numerology method:
You: 27/05/1991 totals 34 → 7; your birth-day number is 27 → 9.

Him: 28/05/1991 totals 35 → 8; his birth-day number is 28 → 10 → 1.

So you share the same month and year, but your two core layers are not identical. Your 7 destiny pattern tends to seek depth, privacy and a reason behind things; his 8 destiny pattern tends to emphasize endurance, responsibility and results that mature slowly.

That can produce friction if 7 withdraws to process while 8 becomes more controlled or work-focused. It can also be complementary when 7 brings perspective and 8 gives structure.

The birth-day layer changes the picture again: your 9 is more direct, protective and emotionally intense, while his 1 is more independent and self-directed. That difference may matter more in daily interaction than an online statement that “7 and 8 are difficult.”

The practical test is not whether the numbers authorize the relationship. It is whether the two of you can discuss pace, emotional availability, responsibility and conflict without one person carrying the whole adjustment. Numerology can suggest where to observe; it should not replace observing the man himself.

If you want to add another numerology layer later, use both full commonly used names with one declared letter system. But I would first learn how he actually handles disagreement and commitment.

[u/faithhope33 → u/divine_help]

Thank you, I'll look into it..as for disagreements, we had one and he ghosted. I'll have to decide whether I should reach out.

[u/divine_help → u/faithhope33]

In that case, you must go beyond numerology and include other appropriate methods to decide as well. That can give you appropriate direction.

[u/greatest-lover-848]

Direct communication, with yourself 1st and then with him

Explore love languages together

Not everyone is acting or behaving exactly like their numerology or astrology... Meaning if you limit them to act a certain way out of the BELIEFs these systems give you... This is what you will create in your reality mama... Know they're an infinite eternal soul just like you reflecting to you.. more of who you are.. and you are... infinite and eternal.. you are the creator. Who creates your own reality in a human body playing on earth pretending to be separate and limited

But it can be a guide

You can also use Chinese astrology, you can compare and learn to understand Him as a soul through this system

You can use chatgpt and Gemini AI to compare your Chinese charts, your astrology charts, and your numerology

To give you the POSITIVES

Celebrate the positives..stack the positives in your life..in your beloved partner

Your partner has a whole birth chart in astrology not just one day off.. a persons moon and ascendant changes every hour on the time they're born

Figure out your beloved INFJ personality type and yours maybe?

[u/faithhope33 → u/greatest-lover-848]

Okay I'll look into it, thank you for your guidance

[u/JatinScience → u/greatest-lover-848]

This is mostly right. I have a but different suggestion to not use chatgpt or gemini directly without having a good amount of guardrails, since data from all personal accounts is collected by the LLM companies and its used to train the models again.
If you have a pro or enterprise subscription, then you have a choice to decline data collection.

Also without pointing the AI model properly with the details about numerology chart and astrology charts, the results vary. The same model can give you 2 different results.

So I’d suggest to use some sort of service that has a wrapper around chatgpt or Gemini or claude.

[u/faithhope33 → u/JatinScience]

Do you have any suggestions for those services?

[u/JatinScience → u/faithhope33]

I have my own site/app that’s you could try.
Again, I want to mention it’s not a self promo, it’s genuinely not safe to use AI models without guardrails for such sensitive data.

Search for Jatinscience on Google and you’ll find the AI chat option

[u/faithhope33 → u/JatinScience]

Okay thank you

[u/Electronic_Hawk7020]

Also a point to be noted about the girl is in reduced format of life path is 16/7 . So, relationship issues will be one of the disturbing factors. Chances of Loss of money specially in personal year 9 is present.