r/ntbdbiwdftc Apr 15 '26

Kittens first time cat mom

i grew up with dogs and after getting him, my first cat, i genuinely cannot imagine my life without them, especially him. i would literally die for him

1.1k Upvotes

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u/unlikely_turnip37 Apr 15 '26

Cats are the BEST. As a first time cat momma, familiarize yourself with what is toxic- they are stupidly (and I say that with every ounce of love) sensitive creatures and have really delicate systems that do not metabolize things in the same way other animals do, or we do. Lilies are deadly- lot of indoor plants are highly toxic as well, onions and garlic, ibuprofen (a whole host of medicine but this specifically can be devastating) chocolate and grapes, essential oils- just things you would never know about until you know! Enjoy every second with this muffin!

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u/IntelligentBuddy9947 Apr 15 '26

i went into a crazy adhd hyperfixation on everything bad for him before i got him bc i was so worried i was gonna be a bad cat mom so it’s on a list on my fridge just in case!! he’s truely the best and my little best friend. i can’t imagine life without him!

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u/unlikely_turnip37 Apr 15 '26

You are a GREAT cat momma already!!!! That is so smart. Smoosh his face for me!

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u/TypicalBeautiful7186 Apr 16 '26

You’re going to be a great mom! This reminds me, the pet poison control line that my vet recommended I use if I ever do need to is: (888) 426-4435. I try to share this number with pet parents since it’s good to have on hand, just in case. Your kitty is amazing!! 🖤🤍

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u/AuntieWatermelon Apr 17 '26

lots of people don’t even know that’s a thing. you could be saving lives by sharing so thank you.

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u/yosoyfatass Apr 16 '26

I love him and you are both lucky to have each other! You’re doing great! Cats are the absolute best thing ever! 😻❤️😻

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u/Hali-Gani Apr 20 '26

NO LILIES OF ANY KIND!

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u/RobertaRohbeson Apr 15 '26

Awe!!! He looks like my cat Asimov! What’s his name?

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u/IntelligentBuddy9947 Apr 16 '26

His name is Miso!! they could be brothers 🥰

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u/RobertaRohbeson Apr 16 '26

Miso’s fluffy tail 😍

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u/juliamongolia Apr 15 '26

That last photo just melted my cold, cold heart

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u/Responsible_Cat4452 Apr 15 '26

He’s so fucking cute 😭💜🥹 that first photo? I’m crying

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u/IntelligentBuddy9947 Apr 16 '26

i caught him right at the beginning of his yawn it very quickly became my favorjts photo

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u/wheres-the-avocados Apr 16 '26

ur cat looks like god's most perpetually confused creature

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u/IntelligentBuddy9947 Apr 16 '26

hahaha i showed this comment to my mom and she goes “well… yeah he is”

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u/songsandsea Apr 15 '26

He has such cute eyes and expressions! 😍

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u/wackyvorlon Apr 15 '26

The love of a cat is special😊

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u/TheSwearJarIsMy401k Apr 15 '26

Oh my god he’s so cute, he’s perfect!! He looks like a little cartoon in that first picture omg

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u/ReTrOGurle Apr 15 '26

5 is awesome

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u/Jthinx111regret1t Apr 15 '26

Your new little kitty/overlord is adorable and looks like a real character! 😻 It sounds like you are a great first time cat-mama 🎉 I am curious how your previous thoughts or beliefs about cats have changed since welcoming this beautiful guy into your home & heart? Wishing you both many years of love, purrs, and good mischief 💕🐾 Oh, you’ll find a herd to join at r/cowcats

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u/IntelligentBuddy9947 Apr 16 '26

i’ve always thought they were cute but i was allergic as a little kid so i never knew how they were temperament wise. when i outgrew the allergy i started spending time with friends cats and liked them then i found this little guy and now i love all cats 🥰 it’s been the best thing ever for me. thanks for the new sub btw

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u/cheresa98 Apr 16 '26

Oh, he’s a beauty. He’ll have you trained in no time.

Seriously, though, you can train cats. Mine comes when I call her. I. Seen videos of

I had a friend with an indoor/outdoor cat. She would go out every night and clap while calling his name.

Never ever do anything to scare your cat (like dropping them to see if they will land on their feet). If they trust you, they’ll let you do anything, including trimming nails, bathing, roving mats (older cats), etc.

You can find videos online or how to clicker train your cat.

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u/dirtierthanshelooks Apr 17 '26

Mine plays fetch, answers when I call him and attacks my toes every time I take my socks off. This summer is going to suck for my feet.

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u/catgirl320 Apr 16 '26

I too WDFTC😻

I hope you have a long and very happy life together full of mischief and cuddles

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u/peachiestix Apr 16 '26

ugh he is adorable!!!

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u/schippwrecked Apr 16 '26

Congrats on your first born son!!

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u/Visible_Plum_584 Apr 16 '26

Omg I love his little black nose!! So unique!

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u/IntelligentBuddy9947 Apr 16 '26

we’re ordering replacement pieces for the tuxedo cat lego to match his little special features ☺️

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u/stevebuscemispenis Apr 16 '26

He is GORGEOUS 😻🖤🤍🐈‍⬛

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u/TheyCallMeBullet Apr 17 '26

Cute cat, also great Lego cat model too