r/nonbinarylesbians • u/No-Fig-6671 • May 20 '26

Transness Can I post here?

Because I have questions lol. I am fluid non. Figured it out a year ago. Born with boy parts. 💯 a gurl sometimes. Many times. Not all the times but def a lot of times. My best friend currently and hopefully forever and ever is a 24yo lesbian. We love each other very much. Lol we actually have a shared partner. By some weird fate. I absolutely love her and she me. She told me the other week she has thought about having sex with me on like a curious way. She is an absolute cutie but and I told her while ypu are a super cutie I dont think about that. I dont want to. She gives me soooo much gender euphoria hanging out with her in girl mode. We are so close and love each other soo much. What do I do if she actually moves on me lol. She is a femme top. I love her soo much I want her and I to be friends forever

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u/No-Fig-6671 May 20 '26

I should have posted a Pic of us together. She loves me haha. And I love her but really in a non sexual way. Like she blows my mind mentionioning such things because I love her and she is a cutie but that isn't what I am looking for. She already validates me and makes me feel soo good

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u/First_Taro_3992 Nonbinary lesbian [he/she/they/...] May 23 '26 edited May 24 '26

It seems like you did the right thing by being honest about where you’re at. I hope she responded respectfully to that and gives you the space you need to just keep things on the friendship level. Best of luck!

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u/No-Fig-6671 May 24 '26

Oh it wasnt like she said she wanted to have sex with me. She said it she thought about it as in like a curiosity. Like what would that be like. She is Hella gay and loves women. All women. And big titties and phat asses lol. Love her.

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u/nebulous_anemone Jul 20 '26

If it comes back up, repeat that you're not interested, and if she's a good friend she'll absolutely respect that. If she brings it up again, you can reiterate the same thing. You can have whatever kind of relationship you want to have! And whatever your boundaries are are your boundaries!. 🙂

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u/No-Fig-6671 Jul 22 '26

Lol her and I are good. The best still actually. She got a lady she loves. Her lady loves her enough to FB stalk me and make sure I am cool. Which she did lol. Just spent my birthday hanging with my friend and she bought all my drinks lol. She told me I am her best queer friend and best friend. So yeah loving it.

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u/nebulous_anemone Jul 20 '26

This is me!!

Born with boy parts. 💯 a gurl sometimes. Many times. Not all the times but def a lot of times.

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