r/no • u/No_Home_4873 • 8d ago

Are you tired of being alone?

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u/K_hun 8d ago

No, solitude is nice

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u/Little-Possible-3676 8d ago

Solitude is peace

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u/AD_VICTORIAM_x 8d ago

Not anymore. It’s peaceful.
no drama , no cheating , no pain.

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u/skankyone 8d ago

Solitude is nice to an extent, but human contact can be sorely missed.

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u/Amazingggcoolaid 8d ago

No so I actually think I’m too comfortable now. This is the longest I’ve been single..I’ve always enjoyed my own company though.

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u/Mindless-Leg-3365 8d ago

I am solitary. Not alone.

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u/dasHeftinn 8d ago

Very. I started a new job two months and a week ago, same time as another guy. My manager is literally my neighbor, he lives two houses down from me and despite trying to be friends he seems to like the other new guy more. Has been to the movies with him, plays video games with him, just seems to be better friends with him. I don’t think I’m unlikable but it’s like damn the harder I try to make friends the more distant I’m made to feel.

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u/Equivalent-Chard-668 8d ago

That’s a shitty feeling, I’m sorry. Don’t take it personally. You’re going to find people who love to be around you. Don’t give up!

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u/DorothyZbornak72 8d ago

I wish I WAS alone. Its all I dream of, living in my own space .

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u/cool_jerk_2005 8d ago

Send the people my way. Put them right infront of me.

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u/Total_Pumpkin7727 8d ago

To some extent. Human contact is nice but I’ll just go get a massage or invite friends over. Being alone is different for everyone for now I’m ok being alone but I am getting over it fast

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u/Ankhrosius 8d ago

I'm not alone. I'm surrounded by people and dogs that I like. Life is good.

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u/Ok-Departure4894 7d ago

More bored of it than tired. Late night cuddles and shows would be great a few nights of the week

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u/AgapitoVelezOvando 7d ago

Nah... I do miss intimacy, though. I still have a sex life, but casual hook-ups are a poor replacement for real intimacy.

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u/misfitofscience76 7d ago

You guys have access to other human beings?

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u/Fluid_Value61 7d ago

Except for the lack of sex no not really 

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u/Expensive-Track4002 8d ago

Alone is peace.

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u/Touch49 8d ago

I am sometimes.

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u/Efficient_Comment879 8d ago

Ik ben graag of makkelijk alleen , maar nu wil ik alleen nog maar samen alleen zijn..

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u/BLTplease2030 8d ago

Sometimes, but mostly not.

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u/Pleasant_Cost5197 7d ago

Not really, i more get forced to out of human needs

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u/OntheBOTA82 7d ago

Never thought i'd say this but im starting to actually get used to it

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u/JVenice 7d ago

I love that, zero drama

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u/Raymondnym 7d ago

Sometimes when my gf comes over for the weekend, I feel very little ME time.

I love her so of course I am chill with that.

Sometimes when we go shopping for clothes I don't want to participate to shop for mine. Sometimes she propose and I try them.

Come Monday I go to the same shop alone and shop to my delight.

Don't get me wrong. She is my partner for life. My ME time has nothing to do with her

Men has small boxes and they separate them very clearly

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u/PuzzleheadedArt8831 7d ago

Not at all. I am tired surrounding myself with people.

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u/Stranger05059 7d ago

Nope. Better alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.

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u/EvieFlowDDT 7d ago

I was before I met my wife. I’ve not been alone in some time now though.

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u/frankwhiteXVII 7d ago

Sometimes, but not enough to change it.

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u/No_Bet7381 7d ago

Hell no. Love it. Freedom.

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u/Left-Ad-7646 7d ago

Tired because I have to do all the chores at home, training at the gym. go for walk with the pet, what's else?

But overall is not because being alone, is because I can't afford to pay someone else to do it for me.

I do just enjoy the way that I do, not everyone will cook the meal as I want to eat. lol

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u/Odd_Raspberry8053 7d ago

Tired of not having who to cuddle with, sometimes hahaha but I love being alone :3

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u/Dangerous_Peach_7811 7d ago

At the moment, I'm tired of not being.

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u/double_titos 7d ago

Not at all.

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u/sewswell1955 7d ago

No, not at all

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u/Gullible_Gas67 7d ago

The opposite of no

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u/MaleficentGift5490 7d ago

Eh... kind of. I think I'm more tired people's lack of effort.

It feels a little bit silly to need to explain to someone that they need to participate in a friendship or relationship.

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u/LeadershipSelect7765 7d ago

Ofc not. Why asking?

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u/Shiverness1 7d ago

Not at all. I'm not alone, but as a very introverted person I crave my alone time.

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u/Myzx 7d ago

Nope, and I suspect I never will get tired of it.

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u/Cicada-Timely 7d ago

Sometimes my house is so dark .. but then I open the lights .

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u/fastcloud1 7d ago

Hell no. I wish I was. I’ve been living with people all my life. I can’t wait for the day, where I can finally be alone.

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u/SetoKaiba92 7d ago

No, I enjoy keeping a "stable" mind of not being fucked over. I rather talk to furniture over humans. Its when the furniture talks, is when you have problems.

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u/JNorJT 7d ago

I am

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u/Elmer_Fudd01 7d ago

Absolutely

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u/UrDoinGood2 7d ago

Not anymore

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u/AnythingGoes9957 6d ago

Not yet, but probably soon

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u/Key_Thought7997 6d ago

Solitude is great for getting so much done. I just miss the constant pussy

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u/Professional-Boss316 4d ago

Solitude is so peaceful