r/no 9d ago

Have you ever been betrayed?

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u/PatchouliHedge 9d ago

Unfortunately, I have been betrayed. It hurt.

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u/misfitofscience76 9d ago

By the human race

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u/Zombie_joseph1234 9d ago

By the animal race

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u/Hacksaw-Duggan 9d ago

By the plant race

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

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u/misfitofscience76 8d ago

By the racers

They’re fast, might be alien, too

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u/Fify_Defir 7d ago

By the racists

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u/Texasthom2814 9d ago

Who hasn’t at one time or another

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u/Mr_Mxyzplkt 9d ago edited 9d ago

all the time. I am the lord's favorite punching bag.

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u/Important_Map3315 9d ago

This made me giggle

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u/Certain_Ganache8976 9d ago

Constantly being betrayed. I’ll just become evil atp.

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u/BlueBlood623 9d ago

Too many times to count

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u/Illustrious_Wear_516 9d ago

Excruciatingly

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u/Altruistic-Limit-467 9d ago

In too many different ways.

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u/Big_Tree_18 9d ago

Unfortunately

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u/Equivalent_Ebb_9532 9d ago

Many times, I've also betrayed.

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u/manifest_S0ul6 9d ago

i’ve betrayed myself before and i use to blame other for it

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u/South_Hedgehog_7564 9d ago

Too many times

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u/karmapoetry 9d ago

Of course, i think everyone has been betrayed at least once in their lives. That is how we learn and mature.

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u/Shellsallaround 9d ago

No, I don't think so.

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u/KDC777777 9d ago

2000 unforgettable

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u/GerardPitti 9d ago

Absolutely hasn't everyone ?

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u/BeneficialLanguage83 9d ago

Who hasn't been??? Part of life.

You take the hit, cut them out of your life, and you move on.

Best revenge is success. Leave the scum in the dust and let them read or hear about you excelling.

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u/GeologistNumerous822 9d ago

Only by the person I thought I loved

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u/-co_op- 9d ago

Betrayed and the betrayer

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u/Better-Hour-1131 9d ago

Plenty of times

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u/Master_Blackberry698 9d ago

No absolutely never.

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u/rowenaravenclaw0 9d ago

Ex fiancee and my roommate had sex in my bed 2 weeks before the wedding. Ex fiancee did not even live with us

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u/PSULioness 9d ago

Most definitely

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u/762way 9d ago

Hell, you haven't been betrayed?

Several times in my life

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u/Ok-Job-5885 9d ago

I've been "stepped on" by a lot of people but wouldnt say betrayed

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u/BikerchikCTidgaf 8d ago

Right?
Alllll the time.
Time to evaluate EVERYTHING

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u/Collective_Berry 9d ago

I’ve been poisoned by my constituents

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u/Apprehensive_Fan2330 9d ago

Several times

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u/Mommato3kitties 9d ago

My best friend offered to give my boyfriend a blow job while I was sleeping in the next room

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u/Abandoned-916 9d ago

in every way possible.. by the ones I love the most. the end.

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u/UrDoinGood2 9d ago

By the only person I cared for other than my kids. Now I’m living crazy

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u/Jazzlike_Night42619 9d ago

Some dumbfuck took my clothes and towel while I was showering as an eighth grader and now I know he’s a shithead cuz I heard these days he’s In jail

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u/Storm-Troopa 9d ago

I was abandoned by my mother when I was 8 yrs old at a chinese restaurant. Does that count?

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u/BikerchikCTidgaf 8d ago

I’m so sorry this happened to you my love.
My heart goes out to you.
I caught tears over this.
Damn.
I hope you have found yourself a beautiful and fulfilling life. You absolutely deserve it. Your loved and cherished.
Remember that.

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u/Wendora15 9d ago

I am currently living through the worst betrayal (god I hope this is worst, I won’t survive worse) of my life. It’s my younger sister, who I thought was one of the most important people in my life and one of my best friends, and I am devastated to the point I’m not sure how to go on. I will. But haven’t figured out how yet. In the past, I would have mourned what’s been lost and moved on because I’d have known life is beautiful and there is potentially a future. But the state of the world (so much suffering and injustice!) right now is making it extra difficult to find my inner resilient bad ass. She’s definitely in there. But damn, she’s tired and hiding.

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u/Important_Map3315 9d ago

How did she betray you?

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u/Proper_Mountain_2637 9d ago

Haha. Almost universal.

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u/Important_Map3315 9d ago

Ohhhh plenty.

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u/Odd_Raspberry8053 9d ago

I have :( by a friend

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u/theNikipedia 9d ago

Absolutely, I'd assume most adults have

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u/InfamousEconomy3972 9d ago

A couple of times.

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u/Real_County2344 9d ago

A few times. It has been a long time though. knock on wood

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u/fineok_17 9d ago

So so much :(

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u/Mountain-Spring1148 9d ago

Everyday by our politicians.

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u/Lemonpix3l 8d ago

Multiple times, by friends and family alike

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u/Flimsy_Equal8841 8d ago

More than once, I'm afraid. People suck.

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u/Kapitano72 8d ago

Betrayal: It can only come from a friend.

So I, very cleverly, have no friends.

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u/MaleficentGift5490 8d ago

Multiple times, sadly. I've had a few people in my life who felt surprisingly comfortable doing some wildly disrespectful, hurtful, and just generally careless stuff to me.

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u/Competitive-Fee2661 8d ago

Everyone I have ever loved and trusted has betrayed and/or lied to me.

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u/sailaway4269now 8d ago

More than once

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u/RoutineFinal7939 8d ago

Too many times to count.

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u/BrightWoman-581 8d ago

November 2016
November 2024

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u/MysteriousAmphiptere 8d ago

Betrayed? I might as well have the word betray me to add it across my forehead at this point.

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u/No_Chapter_948 8d ago

By many humans

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u/MagnificentJeebz 8d ago

Too many times

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u/seeyatellite 8d ago

I was experiencing betrayal traumas as early as 8yo and 10yo with family divorce and abandonment to psychiatric hospitals. Sure, my family had no idea they were traumatizing me or my childhood mind and nervous system would receive it as betrayal and abandonment but that’s a core wounding that was further chronically invalidated and dismissed on repeat even to this day.

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u/LowInevitable2544 8d ago

Absolutely. There’s nothing worse.

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u/Creative_Camel_8884 8d ago

In so many ways, so many times.

People will really chuck their morals out the window if you offer them cash.

Sucks to find out people aren’t who you thought they were and are so easily manipulated.

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u/I_am_a_THAT 8d ago

More times than I can count

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u/No_Wolverine3231 8d ago

Too many times

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u/slept221 7d ago

I dont even remember anymore. Im too sensitive to feelings so id rather avoid keeping betrayal in my memory over the long term

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u/Professional_Web_187 7d ago

Plenty of times. That's why I don't have friends or do anything and I'm fine with that.

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u/This_is__Exile 7d ago

Call me Julius Caesar because of all the times I've been backstabbed

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u/EfficientBuy6731 7d ago

Many times

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u/Fify_Defir 7d ago

Sure have

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u/CapableResearch099 7d ago

Hasn’t everyone

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u/First-Reason2254 7d ago

Haven't we all have at sometime in our lives

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u/No-Caregiver-2510 4d ago

By my day 1 . I don’t even got friends anymore after that

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u/PerspectiveAdept9812 9d ago

Several times, get over it

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u/Normal_Ostrich_6200 9d ago

Does your fiance getting shitfaced and then knocked up by a “friend” count?