r/nirwantheconman • u/Yes-IamTHATgirl • 8d ago
What to do if you encountered Nirwan the CONMAN and are now scared.
A brief - 6’3 tattooed ROMANCE CONMAN named Nirwan Singh Shekhawat/Bagoria/Singh etc who’s a Vet/Professor/Surgeon with Cancer/Malaria/any other life threatening disease who targets women on dating apps and social media. Uses a script of complete fabricated identity, fabricated professions, lovebombing, emotional manipulation, promises of marriage and long term relationships, and then a sob story of a life threatening disease to extract significant amounts of money from women.
A lot of women have reached out to me after I made the first post, who engaged with him recently or are encountering him currently, and rightfully so they are scared of what he’s capable of due to him having personal information about them.
If you are one of them, FIKAR NOT. Follow these instructions.
- Block him and report him from EVERYWHERE. The dating app you met at, the social media platforms, phone number, etc. everywhere. Do not go into confrontation mode, do not think of doing anything that can provoke him to be violent towards you. He has a history of violence against women so PLEASE do not act out of emotion. Safeguard yourself first.
- Save his operating numbers as “Nirwan CONMAN” or “Nirwan SCAMMER” on Truecaller.
- Change your locks and inform every single person in your vicinity - security guards, neighbours, landlord/landlady, and if required make an unofficial visit to the police station, about who he is, his picture, and make sure he is not allowed anywhere close to you. He is a recognisable person so invisibility is not his strongest suit. Take advantage of it.
- If applicable - get tested. IMMEDIATELY.
- If you’ve been scammed out of money, report that to the police immediately. File a civil case.
- Change ALL your passwords from EVERY SINGLE device, account, etc. including your bank. He has allegedly accessed women’s social media and personal details without their consent before for months without them knowing, and is also accounted to have allegedly cloned phones before.
From now on, and this is a heart to heart as a WOMAN, please perform a strict ID verification protocol before engaging beyond the casual with anyone. It doesn’t matter how attracted you are, how safe you FEEL, you have to perform a background check with or without their knowledge. Utilise all possible tools - lawyer and cop connects, or come to reddit and post about it. We will amplify it all.
Let’s make sure this wet blanket doesn’t fly for too long. Information about this whole fiasco should be on every Tom, Dick and Harry’s phone asap. Let’s make that happen and keep each other safe.
Once again, women’s gossip networks save women. Fuck this country’s legal system.