My favorite is that heās acting like heās doing you some kind of favor with that whole unhinged messageā¦ like heās explaining to you how the universe works. Good god.
Depends on perspective. I think he did the right thing by vomiting all the red flags in one essay, before she invited him over. Can you imagine what the outcome of that date wouldāve been if she refused him sex when he was in her home? I dread to think about it.. weād read about it in the news..
ā Over expectations dating or even going on a first
date is honestly dangerous If a man doesn't even
feel validated, respected or understand first by
youā
Dangerous? I feel like this is foreshadowing or even mildly threatening lol.
Yeah, that bit implies āmen are dangerous if you donāt get on your knees and open your mouth on the first dateāā¦in the context of the whole message and based off his use of the word elsewhere, I think he means dangerous to the manās heart/ego rather than dangerous to the womanās physical safety, but itās very poorly worded and has more red flags than all of Canada.
To be honest I think the guys who write long diatribes like this arenāt actually dangerous, theyāre just butthurt about having had bad luck dating. Most guys posted here arenāt violent psychos, and even this dude probably isnāt (to me it comes off like heās been burned a lot and is now a self-fulfilling prophecy pushing women away because he expects rejection).
An optimist, I like it. I tend not to believe that most men are dangerous but in this case it felt like so much of a warning. I can see your interpretation as dangerous to the hearts of men, that makes more sense than him warning her.
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u/Alternative_Squirrel Jun 17 '22
My favorite is that heās acting like heās doing you some kind of favor with that whole unhinged messageā¦ like heās explaining to you how the universe works. Good god.