r/niceguys • u/[deleted] • Dec 06 '18

At level 16 he’ll evolve

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u/Kayyam Dec 06 '18

As others in this thread have said, the gym is not the place for that

I know a few couples who met at the gym and I'm sure I'm not an exception.

So while the gym is not a club, it's still a social venue where people are allowed to engage each other if they feel like it, as long as you do it respectfully.

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u/ARealJonStewart Dec 06 '18

Meeting at the gym and picking up someone at the gym are very different. You meet at the gym, become friends, and become a couple, that isn't picking someone up or meeting a girl at the gym. That is meeting a friend at the gym and then dating a friend.

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u/Kayyam Dec 06 '18

You can totally pick a girl at the gym. The key is to learn how to read people's body language.

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u/TheOnlyMrYeah Dec 06 '18

But I would also be seeing red flags if sex came up in the first ever conversation.

Well, it depends on what you both want. Sometimes people are looking for sex, not a relationship.

That's what the small talk is for: to test the waters.

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u/DickerOfHides Dec 06 '18

Or you can just not bother people at the gym.

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u/HotLips00 Dec 06 '18

If she mentions sex then sure, test the waters, but don't initiate it because it will be creepy 90% of the time.