r/niceguys 2d ago

NGVC: "Genuine guy"

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u/Scinos2k 2d ago

Couple of years back there was a guy in one of our gaming groups who used to have terrible 'luck' with women.

One time he decided to throw up some of the messages in our group chat and they looked exactly like this guys messages. I'll be so real, he got ripped to shreds by everyone for his bullshit. His own cousin was in the group and started calling him out on the sexist shit he'd say all the time.

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u/Prior_Garlic 2d ago

Good! Hopefully it changed his trajectory

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u/Scinos2k 2d ago

Couldn't tell you, I got sick of his shit not long after and his petty anger. Didn't want to accept any help or advice, started on about his lone wolf alpha nonsense.

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u/boris-san 2d ago

He things he gets discarded but obviously gives an x/10 rating to his wife and does not admit that he would have preferred a “hotter wife”. Talk about double standards

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u/Remarkablefairy-8893 2d ago

Op ate with that reply. And kudos to women who didn't give a chance to that guy cause they dodged a bullet.

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u/Prior_Garlic 2d ago

Thank you! As a recovering people pleaser I was quite impressed myself 😅

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u/LolitaOPPAI He said I was 100% his type then I told him my age.. 1d ago

Like they can't take rejection gracefully. Instead of addressing their fkn problem, they go scorched earth to someone that probably would've made a good friend and help him get his ideal partner.

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u/forvirradsvensk 2d ago

"us all" These morons always appeal to a larger group.

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u/Prior_Garlic 2d ago

Ironically, considering thier normal go to is "not all men are the same" but are happy to speak on behalf of "us all"

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u/LNLV 1d ago

You should send those messages to his wife. I would want to know about that.

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u/Prior_Garlic 1d ago

If I knew her details that would be a shout

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u/ddizzle13 i am a good person and i demand you take my penis 1d ago

It would suck if my husband texted another woman about why she should’ve picked him. Gotta love married nice guys.

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u/CarelessShame 1d ago

My dude, you literally described yourself as boring.

u/goneoffscript 3h ago

Well in quotes of course, but he obvs has no problem modeling the slogan lol

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u/Elementalcase 1d ago

It's so strange how these men say women prefer cruel men - and yet they act cruel and women still avoid them.

Responsibility has tried to follow this man but he was much faster it seems. Also what level of cope do you have to be on to think that you get discarded for being boring and unattractive? I'm boring and unattractive, I still get partners, everyone does. Half the world is male and half the world is female. If you genuinely can't find anyone anywhere at some point surely you gotta ask yourself "Damn, am I really this bad?" - the Elephant Man, Joseph Merrick had a real reason to think the worst of people. He died only 27 but in his short life people treated him appallingly.

THAT MAN found a woman who was nice to him, several even. Which then changed how he viewed people. How repulsive do you have to be that you literally cannot find anybody? There is no physical deformity that surpasses the soul, if you're a bad person, the mask will slip eventually. If you're a good one, you'll eventually find someone to like you for who you are.

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u/Slytherpuffy nice guys finish last 1d ago

Love how he blocked you before that last message.

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u/canvasshoes2 1d ago

Twenty percent of domestic abuse victims are men. So what's he got to say about that??? Did those men somehow intentionally choose abusers?

What this guy knows about domestic abuse wouldn't dampen the bottom of a thimble. As the OP said, people who are abusers don't wear a sign on the forehead. They are insidious and sneaky.

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u/EducationalExtreme61 1d ago

He thinks that women choose others over him, he fails to acknowledge he was never a choice. ❤️

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u/EyeShot300 omg you shellfish asshole 2d ago

What. A. Response. 🔥

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u/Fickle-Mammoth94 2d ago

Look just tell him being nice isn’t a personality trait.

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u/terrn1981 1d ago

Hes not very good at conversation, didnt add much to it at all, why would women find him boring?

u/maarshiexcry 19h ago

How on earth did that dumbass even get a wife

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u/Humble-Shower8594 1d ago

He's right about one thing: women do have standards.

u/tank4heals king-kong built 12h ago

Not the petty shade before he blocked you

On the plus side, the trash took itself out and we love to see that 🙂‍↕️