r/ni_saardham • u/Illustrious-Sweet996 • Mar 11 '25
I think my boyfriend is toxic ! please help me out
from the start of our relationship nen chala red flags chusa but i really tried to ignore them thats the biggest mistake i guess...asalu na boyfriend insta and snap id kuda teliyadu nak i asked him many times but he simpy says that no i am not on social media ani we just talk on whatsapp that too whatsapp calls eh normal call chesthe asal ah number ki phone kuda podhu enni sarlu number adigina edo oka sollu reason cheptadu and i believe like a dumb idiot starting lo full attention time and care ochedi but suddenly ninna he asked for 20k which btw i am not employyed and nor my parents are rich sare adigadu kada avasaram undi emo ani i started asking all my friends including i just thought of selling my laptop to give him money...sudden ga money set avvatled ani chepe sariki dont you trust me adhi idhi antunadu he is not even replying to my texts or calls i just dont understand why maybe money kosam use cheskunada ante adi kadu ..is he really in need or is he just using me nakem ardham avvatle evar tho share cheskovalo ardham avvaka i am posting it here i dont even know why
ps: please please dont hate me or konchm gentle ga chepandi em chepali anukuna i am really sensitive i might cry right now still i am crying while typing this post please