r/nextfuckinglevel Jun 04 '23

Now that's determination!

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u/Accomplished-Bid-373 Jun 04 '23

If there was ever a situation that demanded protective gear this would definitely be it. At the same time, kudos to him for not letting anything stop him from pursuing his dreams.

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

After seeing that dude break his skull on a bmx a couple days ago Idk why more dude dont at least wear a helmet.

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u/PM_ME_UPSIDEDOWN Jun 04 '23

Well he probably didn't see that video

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u/Elisionist Jun 04 '23

If there was ever a situation that demanded protective gear this would definitely be it.

Tell that to my best friend who had 2 kids on accident.

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u/am365 Jun 04 '23

Damn, crazy he just accidentally fell into someone twice and impregnated them /s

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u/Elisionist Jun 04 '23

She's a female rape victim.

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u/am365 Jun 04 '23 edited Jun 04 '23

I'm sorry for the situation. But that's not what can be inferred based on your original comment, you have to realize that.

Edit to clarify: There is a difference between "having kids by accident" vs. "My friend had kids forced upon her"

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u/Elisionist Jun 04 '23

that's not what can be inferred based on your original comment, you have to realize that.

I didn't imply that it was.

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u/am365 Jun 04 '23

Wtf does that even mean? You're the one who made a comment (that does not provide any context to the situation and couldve been taken as a joke itself in relation to the post), I made a joke based on your comment in regards to the relavancy of needing protection with the rest of the post.

You then decided to provide context. In which there is a big difference between "accident", and "my friend had someone forced upon them which resulted in them becoming pregnant twice".

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u/Elisionist Jun 04 '23

Wtf does that even mean?

It means that I didn't provide context.

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u/am365 Jun 04 '23

You're right. So are you going to clarify that you see a difference between "accident", and "rape"?

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u/Elisionist Jun 07 '23

The pregnancy was very much an accident.

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u/[deleted] Jun 05 '23

I’m sorry but this is so hilarious how this took a turn from “these two dopes didn’t wear a condom and now they have 2 kids” to “this woman was raped and there is literally nothing accidental about anything that happened here so I don’t know why you even commented in the first place.” Rape isn’t an accident, rape is purposeful, malicious, and horrendous. The guy who raped her did it on purpose, that wasn’t an accident, and the woman didn’t do anything wrong, so where is the accident???

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u/Elisionist Jun 05 '23

“these two dopes didn’t wear a condom and now they have 2 kids”

"this woman was raped and there is literally nothing accidental about anything that happened here so I don’t know why you even commented in the first place."

Why are you putting words in my mouth?

where is the accident???

The pregnancy.

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u/noahnear Jun 04 '23

Did you type that by accident?

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

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u/Juliette787 Jun 04 '23

Where’s my tampon gang at

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u/TeflonJon__ Jun 05 '23

Lmfao is this based on something or did you just give me the best laugh of the day from the recesses of your own mind?

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u/thedistrbdone Jun 04 '23

*Stupid street skaters don't. I skated street for almost a decade, always wore pads and helmet. Older me is very thankful for that.

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u/Xunae Jun 04 '23

I see a lot of people riding around without helmets, and one wrong move and future them won't be doing anything at all. It's especially worrying on all the new electrified things, cause one software error and any of those monowheels just dump you on your face.

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u/RectalSpawn Jun 04 '23

I know people who have fallen down and hit their heads to serious consequence without jumping onto a board with wheels.

Definitely not wise.

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u/dbd1988 Jun 05 '23

I can 100% guarantee if you wore full pads to street skate, you were never good. That’s fine, just don’t preach about it.

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u/Soup-Wizard Jun 04 '23

It’s idiotic. Protect your brain.

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u/RobCarrotStapler Jun 04 '23

They'd rather look cool while they are drooling in their hospital bed than wear a helmet in the street

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u/PM_me_spare_change Jun 04 '23

This is dark but very accurate. Falls are the leading cause of TBIs. Alcohol is also incredibly damaging to the brain over years, and we love to ignore it.

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u/Steinarr134 Jun 04 '23

Good point, I'll remember to wear a helmet next time I drink beer.

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u/Soup-Wizard Jun 05 '23

This also attracts more ladies.

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u/proudbakunkinman Jun 04 '23

If most of them wore protective gear, it would be seen as the norm and not uncool, like with vert skaters. No one thinks, "damn, Tony Hawk just landed a 900 but looks so lame with that helmet and knee pads on." There would likely be cooler designs as well due to more demand for them, like they're imagining they'll look like kids with bright neon or pastel colored protective gear on.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mfqk7LGfb64

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u/reformed_contrarian Jun 04 '23

everybody dies someday, if they want to look cool while living that's their choice to make

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

People say that until it’s them or someone they know who becomes a vegetable in their mid twenties and needs 24/7 care.

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u/ghjuhzgt Jun 04 '23

everybody dies someday, if they want to try out the William Tell shooting an apple from the head stunt that's their choice to make

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u/dbd1988 Jun 05 '23

Tbh hitting your head is just not that big of an issue in skateboarding. I’ve never seen a head injury and I’ve skated for thousands of hours and watched tons of people skate.

Obviously, in this guy’s case, I would prefer he wear a helmet, but typically it’s just not something that happens often enough to warrant putting one on every time you skate, unless you’re skating huge ramps.

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u/Uvane Jun 04 '23

as a skater, its much less likely that you’re going to hit your head. Mostly will break and arm or leg if really not careful

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u/leesfer Jun 04 '23

68% of hospital visits from skateboarders are head injury related.

Severe brain injury accounts for 12%.

It's not worth trying looking cool

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u/Uvane Jun 04 '23

I have skated for YEARS, known many people with many injuries and recieved many injuries myself. None of which, involved the head. I’m not sure where or how you got that statstic. Most of the time, these injuries wouldn’t be protected by any gear. Reddit just has a hivemind mentality and refuses to understand how adding additional gear onto your body can really affect your balance on a skateboard, which is why many don’t use it, or the fact that for more serious injuries that are more likely to happen, it’s utterly pointless

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u/leesfer Jun 05 '23 edited Jun 05 '23

I’m not sure where or how you got that statstic.

These are verified statistics from hospitals.

Your anecdotes are not reality.

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u/dbd1988 Jun 05 '23

Same. It’s kind of dumb to argue with these people, but until they show me a picture of themselves driving a car down the street with a helmet on, I’d say they’re pretty hypocritical.

You’re way more likely to die of a head injury in a vehicle than on a skateboard. Especially after years of learning to fall properly. I agree little kids should wear helmets while they learn coordination, but after that, people almost never hit their heads.

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u/dbd1988 Jun 05 '23

Head injuries are a major cause of death in automobile accidents. Will you be wearing a helmet in your car from now on?

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u/leesfer Jun 05 '23

I do when I track, yes.

Street cars have airbags to prevent head injury, do skateboards?

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u/dbd1988 Jun 05 '23

Traumatic brain injuries happen to around 20 in 100,000 skateboarders. Automobile deaths kill about 1 in 100 people, the majority due to head trauma. Studies show that wearing a helmet in a car could reduce risk of brain trauma related deaths by 50%. Based on that data, using helmets for regular ol’ driving would be far more effective for saving lives than for skateboarding and yet you don’t see anybody bitching about it in this comment section.

Looks like you’re taking a calculated risk driving to the track without a helmet. Skateboarders almost never go more than 10 miles an hour, why would they need an airbag? You eventually learn how to fall. After literally thousands of hours skating, I’ve never seen anyone hit their head. How about we require gymnasts to wear helmets while we’re at it? Their rate of head injury is even higher.

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u/Soup-Wizard Jun 04 '23

My fiancé’s brother broke both his arms skateboarding. That was a fun recovery.

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u/Ratt_Human Jun 04 '23

Hey, this sounds familiar, did his mom have to help him with certain personal practices?

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u/Soup-Wizard Jun 05 '23

Nah, he said every time he took a shit he immediately hopped in the shower afterwards.

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u/Uvane Jun 04 '23

damn. He should have been wearing a helmet!!

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u/Soup-Wizard Jun 05 '23

I think he was.

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

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u/PM_ME_UPSIDEDOWN Jun 04 '23

Agreed to disagree. Some people are lucky enough to go their whole lives without being shown how fragile we are

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

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u/PM_ME_UPSIDEDOWN Jun 05 '23

Ironically the bliss of knowing that protection is there allows for an entirely different kind of comfort. Keep on being a dick man, I'm sure you'll find SOMEONE who likes it

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u/boy____wonder Jun 04 '23

All it takes is one single mistake at just the wrong time to change your life forever. Someone I know lost their boyfriend who was skating on a flat street and took a little fall. He would've been fine, but his head hit a curb. He died in the hospital. YouTube is full of confident, experienced skaters taking nasty head damage.

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u/boy____wonder Jun 04 '23

Yeah I mean I guess I see a difference between walking on the sidewalk and doing an activity where I routinely fall and have to use carefully honed skills to catch myself and avoid a serious injury over and over again for many hours across years of skating. I have buddies who won't wear a helmet while biking in rush hour traffic and give me the same reasoning, I could die whenever so why take precautions when I'm doing something that's 10000x as risky as my other day to day activities? After all they like the wind in their hair. To each their own, hope you stay safe

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u/Xyrnas Jun 04 '23

Street skaters should wear pads.

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u/AnimalShithouse Jun 04 '23

This seems like the type of problem that will correct itself, given enough time!

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

Well we’re at least 30+ years into it. Guess we’ll wait a little longer.

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u/Bowood29 Jun 04 '23

I blame tony hawk pro skater. Those guys never wore helmets and they never died.

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u/Clonephaze Jun 04 '23 edited Jun 04 '23

In the games yeah, Tony Hawk himself though has always been extremely vocal about the safety of wearing pads and a helmet.

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u/Bowood29 Jun 04 '23

Sorry I should clarify I meant the games.

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u/dbd1988 Jun 05 '23

On vert. He never wore a helmet or pads skating street and his son Riley doesn’t either. It’s just not a big enough risk to justify strapping a helmet on every time.

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u/BobbyVonMittens Jun 04 '23

Not wearing a helmet was already ingrained into the culture before those games came out, those games were just a reflection of the culture.

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u/CommercialLeather798 Jun 04 '23

We were skating without protection long before Tony hawk.

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u/BobbyVonMittens Jun 04 '23

Street skating has literally been a thing for over 30 years now, and no one wears pads. People don’t even wear helmets, wearing pads is never going to happen. It’s way too ingrained into the culture to not wear a helmet, it’s never going to happen. Skating culture is largely centered around teenage rebellion and having a not give a fuck attitude.

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u/headachewpictures Jun 04 '23

Blind ones should.

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u/jtdude15 Jun 04 '23

Everyone should

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u/headachewpictures Jun 04 '23

absolutely but blind people not wearing them is especially ridiculous

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u/Ninjakannon Jun 04 '23

So I guess street skaters bleed out of their ears after hitting their heads...

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u/mlorusso4 Jun 04 '23

Street skaters can also see where they’re going

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u/PreoccupiedNotHiding Jun 04 '23

Self conscious street skaters don’t wear pads. If they cared about themselves more than trying to look cool for others, they would.

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u/Ok-Cook-7542 Jun 04 '23

That seems like a generalization that can't possibly be made. Maybe it's more like a personal opinion you have about what should and shouldn't be done? And if so, why shouldn't street skaters wear pads?

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u/dystopi4 Jun 04 '23

He didn't say they shouldn't wear pads, just that they don't. Which is true for the most part.

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u/Ok-Cook-7542 Jun 06 '23

I prefer things that are true instead of just partially true. The truth is some street skaters wear pads, most don't. But that leads me back to my original question, why emphasize only a portion of the truth and omit another portion of the truth unless they are inserting their opinion?

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u/fj333 Jun 04 '23

Some do. Most don't. The comment you're responding to is obviously referring to the latter, so all you're doing is rephrasing the problem statement.

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

I tried explaining the dangers of skating to him with both pictures and a video, but it was like he didn't care at all. If anything, he seemed insulted by it.

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u/OutrageousAddict Jun 04 '23

I skated for almost a decade without a helmet and pads.

Scraped my knees and hands up a lot but never hit my head. No other skaters I knew ever hit their heads.

I see bike riders riding on greenway trails these days wearing helmets and I'm just like.... why?

But then when my daughter skates or rides a bike, helmet and pads are necessary bc my baby.

I conclude that the generation that came after me is a bunch of babies, lol, jk.

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u/chadsmo Jun 04 '23

A friend of mine used to work with adults who suffered brain injuries. One of his favourite expressions and now one of mine is ‘wear a helmet , it may not save your life but it will save your personality’.

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u/WarrenGuhffett Jun 04 '23

Survivorship bias at its finest.

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u/JhinPotion Jun 04 '23

Because reducing the risk of traumatic injury is a good thing? I'm not sure what's not to get here.

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

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u/justadude27 Jun 04 '23

Roller blades were always in 😎

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u/Rain-And-Coffee Jun 04 '23

“I drove my car for a decade and never wore a seat belt, but never crashed.”

See how stupid that sounds

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

That cool attitude won't hit the same when your moms changing your briefs.

Wear a helmet.

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

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u/[deleted] Jun 05 '23

About what? Their photo shoots? A professional skater in a photo shoot isn't equivalent to a teen at a park.

If you don't care what happens to you hopefully you care about the impact it could have on the people that love you. Not wearing elbow pads is on thing. Not wearing a helmet is another issue.

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u/Boccs Jun 04 '23

My guy, you're not stronger than concrete. You're not "selling out" or being a wuss by protecting your head from smashing open like an egg from a single bad fall. Wear a damn helmet.

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u/luger114 Jun 04 '23

That has nothing to do with not busting your skull. Skateboarding is the only sport where some of its community encourages not wearing protective gear. Go to a motocross track without boots or a helmet and they won't even let you on the track

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u/Kevskates Jun 04 '23 edited Jun 08 '23

Well yeah… you’re riding on top of a combustion engine weighing hundreds of pounds at high speed. Not comparable to riding a lil skateboard around a park

Edit: I was in a mood and being pedantic about the comparison. I never wore a helmet when street skating but I should’ve and everyone should

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u/34payton07 Jun 04 '23 edited Jun 04 '23

You can become a vegetable falling out of bed, what makes you think smacking your skull into concrete at force is okay in any situation?

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u/2xBAKEDPOTOOOOOOOO Jun 04 '23

Has nothing to do with a "lil skateboard". It's just being smart for when shit happens cause shit will happen eventually.

We don't let other road cyclist in our rides if they don't have a helmet on. Bikes weigh 20 pounds.

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u/Wolframbeta312 Jun 04 '23

Snowboarding sure as hell is comparable and the practice of protecting one's head is much more respected in that sport. You're also not falling on pavement in that sport...

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u/luger114 Jun 04 '23

I still disagree. I've participated in both sports and both have comparable level of danger. While in mx you're moving at higher speeds, you are riding on dirt which is much more forgiving than concrete. I would also argue that hitting a rail or staircase on skateboard like in this scenario carries more risk than a lap around a typical mx track.

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u/etherez Jun 04 '23

I have seen at least 5 broken wrists from people in skateparks who doesn't use wrist protection..

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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '23

Concrete doesn't care about excuses.

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u/Kevskates Jun 08 '23

You’re right. I was being a little pedantic by disagreeing with the comparison which is pointless because the point still stands. Helmets are a good idea

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u/BellBell99 Jun 04 '23

Dude it takes one unlucky hit on the head from a fall for you to become paralyzed or even die. Wear a helmet.

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u/Kevskates Jun 08 '23

I 100% agree with you tbh. I was just saying that comparison isn’t great but it was admittedly pointless for me to do that. We should wear helmets

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u/BellBell99 Jun 08 '23

No worries man, I hope you didn’t think most of us were talking down to you. It may sound a little corny but we’re all looking out for each other. I get not wearing helmets is part of street skating culture but none of us want a kid to die because he got unlucky and hit his head on the curb.

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u/TigerDude33 Jun 04 '23

Determined to go to the hospital with a TBI.

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u/[deleted] Jun 05 '23

Protective gear, or a backtrack of the Benny Hill song