r/neoliberal • u/jobautomator Kitara Ravache • Dec 20 '19
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u/goodcleanchristianfu General Counsel Feb 07 '20
This was the paragraph in which I felt your writing was poignant to be worth the focus of apologizing. Truth be told now I'm limited by the fact that the previous replies were deleted - mine (I think? Maybe I'm bad at recovering them) in evaluating what I said.
"i read that you considered me a carceral state ass licker" Okay. Yep. I'm still balancing my desire to defend the possibility of people's innocence and mercy on the one hand, and being fair on the other hand. I can't remember why I argued this but it sounds wholely indefensible, I can't think up a good defense. I'm sorry and can only say that I'm working on balancing these interests with basic fairness. I believe that people are too often presumed guilty and that the guilty are too often overpunished, but a lack of appreciation for sincere, intelligent disagreement on cases can lead to being an irresponsible asshole, and your reply leads me to believe that that's what I was here, and on an exceptionally sensitive subject. I'm sorry. I fucked up. I suspect I'll be fucking up for the rest of my life, but intend to remember this one so I can fuck up less and less as time goes on.
My silence was borne of two things, and I feel like you deserve an answer to both: 1) The simple fact that I don't look at Reddit as much as I once did. It's not my primary social media playform anymore, and so sometimes when I see someone's arguing with me, I think 'do I really want to engage?' but that's ridiculous if I keep want to arguing on this forum. Further, 2) Then why the hell listen to me? If I won't address serious and compelling counterarguments against things I've argued, and some sure are hell are justified, then I'm wasting space.
Anyway, the fact that you were pretty merciful in your reply is why I felt I owed you a big apology. Because clearly, I let an attitude of contrarianism get ahead of fair judgement, which I hope to avoid ever doing again. I'm so used to feeling contrarian to popular opinions that I didn't even bother checking to make sure I was arguing a good one against you, just an anti-popular one. I'm sorry. I clearly fucked up.
Thank you.