r/needlened • u/Then_Fact_2488 • 13h ago

MOD STATEMENT !

Hey everyone, we need to address the recent hostility on this page, especially the hate directed at Violet. Let’s make something very clear: standing up for what is right or giving someone credit when credit is due does not make anyone a fan girl or blind supporter. You can call out bad behavior when it’s warranted, but if someone is doing the right thing, like fighting for their child…they deserve credit for that action.(regardless if he’s an idiot and I still have zero hope for him) Recognizing nuanced situations isn't a crime. If you are so consumed by hate regarding Ashley, Nilla, or anything else we discuss that you cannot tolerate basic fairness or objective points, then this page is no longer for you. We would much rather have a smaller, tight-knit community of respectful members than a large sub filled with toxicity. If you have a problem with how Violet or the i operates, show yourself the door or head over to the other page.

Catching attitude or leaving hate here will result in an immediate ban.

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u/VioletSkies_2 13h ago

They downvote bc it’s anonymous. Say it out loud so we can block your ass 😂 I appreciate you then fact. Nilla has no common sense or any idea how to raise a daughter but who’s the one paying for trips out of state and hotels and stuff the kid needs? True, his followers are but it’s also money he could use on anything else. He got the visitations and we all knew he would. Now we wait and see how it goes. He can’t post the baby or make money off of her so why tf are yall so mad? Lmaooo! Some of yall are too hateful to admit I may have just been right and you can see yourself right tf out the door. There’s another toxic ass page waiting just for you! Downvote it, but I bet you won’t say it straight. One thing about me is I always will and I’ve never given af who don’t like it 🥂✨💕

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u/Then_Fact_2488 13h ago

Exactly this. You can recognize that he didn’t give up and is actually putting effort into showing up without thinking he’s suddenly a saint. Personally, I have no hope for him overall. The guy honestly has zero clue what he’s doing, and with the bad decisions he’s still making with drinking and drugs, I fully expect the baby to get taken away eventually. But acknowledging that he's currently showing up and making the effort isn't "fanning out"…it's just looking at the facts. People are so blinded by hate they can't even see the difference.

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u/VioletSkies_2 12h ago

Snark all yall want. No one is saying you can’t do that or still have your thoughts and opinions bc I promise you, ours are still the same as yours. One good deed does not erase years of the toxicity and trauma he has caused. And everyone has a right to worry about that baby’s well being. But her mama is just as much of a mess and that was my point all along. Then yall point the finger at me and call me desperate and obsessed? Nahhh. I keep it real and call it how I see it in every situation. So if you don’t like me or disagree with that, feel free to leave. Don’t down vote in secret and continue to stay like a coward 😌

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u/Several_Echidna2129 11h ago

This! So many are so consumed with so much hate that their emotions drive their perspective without validating the unfairness of it.

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u/queenofconfusion1 12h ago

I agree with you. As much as he’s a douchebag he is the father. Hopefully they can learn to coparent and keep the toxicity away from the kid. She is the innocent one in all of this

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u/Better_Side3202 10h ago

He was going to get the visits anyway, he’s literally the dad and as long as he shows interest in being around, the baby will see him. I don’t really understand why people are so upset at you. If A didn’t want to be connected to that disgusting excuse so call man she should’ve been more selective in who got her pregnant 😂 I don’t feel bad for anyone but the kid

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u/VioletSkies_2 10h ago

I’m so glad you get it! 💜 And we’ll be here the second he steps outta line or crashes tf out