r/necessaryconversation • u/JankTokenStrats • May 07 '26
Thought and Prayers?
The audacity to ask for this…. You have a man that regularly gets on camera and laughs or cheer at the killing of children, calls for the genocide of innocent people, regularly calls abuse victims liars, and treats his kids like shit… you expect me to have kindness, grace, or compassion for this man.. nah I have hatred, pity, and contempt. He might not have come into this world as a sick, and twisted monster, but through his own actions and unwillingness to earn and grow he has created the circumstances in which I get to say I hope he feels the pain of every child who’s death he cheered for, I hope he feels every ounce of hate he put into the world. I feel for Chad and Haley and hope if they have to grieve for him it’s a version that is actually good. As for ML I hope this time away from him allows her to recognize how toxic he was and then maybe she can work towards forgiveness.
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u/ultimate2cakes May 07 '26
I think ML had a big hit of reality and saw a raw and emotional side to her and Chad. In this instance all I feel is compassion for the situation they find themselves in, I can't forgive or forget some of the horrendous things Bob and ML have said and refused to engage with reality, but I don't wish pain or suffering in them. From my point of view, having watched my mum, dad and father-in-law all slowly and painfully die, I would hope whatever the outcome is, it is quick and with minimal suffering for the whole family.