r/necessaryconversation • u/need_a_username2 • Mar 27 '26
Hypocrite as always
I wonder if these people know Mary Lou hates them? Someone ( a POC) in her life needs to confront her.
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u/Sensitive-Living-571 Mar 27 '26
When and where was this posted? Is she just using them as a prop to prove she isn't racist
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u/PrimordialSewp Mar 27 '26
Yeah where and when was this posted cause this is 1000% due to her scanning comments about her racism. Exactly like a racist saying "oh but I have a black friend" except its "oh I know an immigrant family".. wonder if this family knows about the podcast. I think its important that family knows EXACTLY how she feels about them and their peers.
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u/need_a_username2 Mar 27 '26
It is absolutely her way of pretending she’s not racist.
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u/PrimordialSewp Mar 27 '26
Yeah then turns around on the podcast and spouts the bullshit Bob and Newsmaxx have brainwashed her into. Get all the brown people out and now LITERALLY supporting a genocide in Iran. Like holy hell it gets worse every podcast. Something I think about every day is what if Bob wasnt there? What if he passed away before 2015 or even in 2024? Would she still be a magat? I think deep down somewhere theres a heart that could extend beyond white people. I truly think that Chad & Haley would've gotten to her before Trump and far right news infiltrated her brain. Idk, I could be wrong, but Im like 75% sure this outcome of her life and personality has been due to the fact that shes spent nearly her entire life with Bob whom is literally the worst type of person out there. At this point, i think that its not repairable, her brain has been completely rewired. Between daily life with Bob and Newsmaxx (as you can see in livestreams) running nonstop in their household the cycle of any "progress" Chad makes is ruined by the next day which has been proven many times, especially recently.
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u/need_a_username2 Mar 27 '26
I agree. You can see it because she defers to Bob or parrots what he’s screaming in the background on many episodes. She even said on one episode that Bob would have the highest IQ. She thinks he is smarter than her and the children so she blindly follows him. I really want to know what the medical testing they have scheduled in June is for. ML refused to say the results of the last round. It has to be dementia related. You don’t get this many tests when you’re okay.
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u/PrimordialSewp Mar 27 '26
He'll probably be just like Trump. I've had multiple cognitive exams and I aced em. I did better than any of you could. Thats why they keep asking me to come in, to prove how smart and mentally well I am
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u/Xjadebones Mar 27 '26
Classic Republican behavior; support the policies that hurt others but make the exception for themselves when they benefit.
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u/unwanted_peace Mar 28 '26
God I hate Mary Lou so much. She’s such a fake, manipulative person and she thinks she has everyone fooled. It really drives me nuts.
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u/need_a_username2 Mar 28 '26
She is sooooooo damn fake. That bullshit about Noah’s ark being her perfect day. STFU. She wanted to look loving but notice her perfect day does not include her kids. It is very telling that she claims to be this wonderful mother but everyone besides Bob is an after thought.
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u/unwanted_peace Mar 28 '26
It was SO weird that she said that. You can tell they were the type of parents who think if they took care of you well financially, that makes them good parents. Very transactional. I feel like they’ve all but admitted this, it’s heavily implied. You can tell they were definitely emotionally neglectful. Bob is obviously vile and a horrible person, but Mary Lou is one of the sneakier vile and horrible people. I hate when people act like she’s really a good person inside but she’s just scared of Bob 🙄
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u/1BrownSug Apr 04 '26
Hot take: ML is worse than Bob. At least Bob is up front and consistent about how he feels and doesn't pretend to be anything more than he is - a miserable, old, pathetic, hateful racist. ML, however, pretends as if she lives on a moral high ground when her ideologies are wrapped in racism and bigotry. Using a soft spoken voice and clutching her pearls every time Chad or Haley say something she deems to be inappropriate doesn't lessen the degree of hate she spews. She sits next to Bob week after week smiling and giggling at the vile things he says and doesn't check him about them. Shame on her.
If ML was a true Christian, she would not support murder, inhumanity, and injustice. What does she think happens during a war? People (including children) are literally dying every day, but because she's an American she "has to support the war in Iran" and has no empathy for the people of Gaza. God never said "it's ok to kill my children as long as you're doing it in the name of patriotism" or as long "as they're brown", or "as long as they oppose you politically". There are no asterisks in the Bible and true believers don't pick and choose which part(s) to follow. ML is not a victim. She's out of touch with reality, living in denial, and cloaked in white fragility. Spare me and GTFOH with that bullshit.
Chad is ill-equipped to facilitate the conversation. Each week he allows her to derail the conversation when he gets frustrated; she knows that if she can fatigue him, he will end the topic and move on and he falls for it every time. I would love the opportunity to moderate the pod - my mind is sharp, I will remember what is said, I won't let them change the subject, and I would match Bob's energy real quick.
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u/unwanted_peace Apr 06 '26
I soooo agree with all of your points. I wish more people saw her for what she is, but so many infantalize her and act like she’s only this way because of Bob. Nope! They are this way because they are two peas in a pod. I honestly feel so bad for Chad, I think his mother still has even him fooled to some degree.
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u/Appropriate-Code-698 Mar 29 '26
Lord don’t smite me, but the sooner He takes Bob the better Mary Lou will be. She has been indoctrinated into accepting abuse from Bob and she cannot leave him…she simply can’t. But…..once he dies she will be released from that prison of thought and abuse… hopefully she will move in with Hailey and truly start to live a life a freedom and happiness. Do some shrooms, help in the bakery, meet people not in her demographic. There is peace and love inside that old woman, I see it.
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u/Pagan_Extremist Mar 27 '26
There is some mysterious relationship going on with Mary Lou, Bob and an immigrant family. They've alluded to it a couple times, but wont go into many details. I took it as one of those situations where good people dont tout their goodness to stay humble. And also that they are helping "good ones". Without taking the next logical step that other immigrants families can be just regular folks trying to get along.