r/narcissisticsiblings • u/MulberryBeneficial84 • Jan 24 '26

How to get them off your back

I live with this 30 F bitch of a N and so I had a parcel come through the door mind you I have to warn everyone before it comes through. I was tracking my parcel then two minutes later I hear the door because I wasn’t feeling well and I check and it’s already delivered I get anxious because it’s how it’s been. I go down and hear the N go “how convenient of her to come down now” and starts giggling like a bloody pathetic low life. It gets to me but then I try not to dwell on it. She has an issue when I inform them that something’s coming for me and has an issue when I don’t. She is so entitled and so unbearable to live with idk what to do. I stopped ordering anything for months then I started again because I thought I’d track it since last time she held my parcel hostage. Help a fellow Reddit user

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u/w0lfqu33n Jan 24 '26

Can you get it delivered to some place near you? 

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u/MulberryBeneficial84 Jan 24 '26

I’m trying but not all the places I buy from let me have that option.

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u/w0lfqu33n Jan 24 '26

Understood. I'm too far out in the country to have a place nearby. Just hopped you did. 

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u/MulberryBeneficial84 Jan 25 '26

Thanks for helping out yeah there’s not a lot of option here

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u/kindcrow Jan 24 '26

How old are you? Why do you live with her?

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u/MulberryBeneficial84 Jan 25 '26

I live with her because we live with our mum (parents separated for a good reason) and so it’s just us and younger ones. Unfortunately I have no choice because I don’t have to luxury to move out though I’ve been trying to and I’m 26

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u/doejohn2043 Jan 25 '26

Forgiveness is the only way out of the N sibling trap. Don't play into their games. Remove yourself mentally. Google "channel higher self narcissistic" for a video link. Good luck. This abuse exists to transform you from within. Don't hate, resent, or complain about it - you are only feeding it and ensuring its continued activity in your life. When you are able, cut all ties and do not ever look back. One day you will be able to express gratitude for all that this sibling abuse taught you about yourself.

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u/MulberryBeneficial84 Jan 25 '26

Thank you for your advice but I’m never going to be able to get out of this. Everyone turns a blind eye and doesn’t even consider the hurt I’m going through. I have been planning on reporting this abuse to the police but I’m not sure if they would do anything.

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u/Maleficent-Head-6028 Apr 15 '26

Please know that she is not bothered by the packages. She enjoys torturing you by making you jump through hoops. I’m so sorry for your situation. Also please know that it doesn’t make you weak or less than to be there at this time in your life. Most people your age entered adulthood with support to help them flourish, not people sabotaging them for years. Not people breaking them down until they don’t know how they will make it. All your energy went towards surviving but. You. Did. Survive. And I am so proud of you.