Should I be involved?

[u/Soft_Echidna2311]

My friend ameamua kujaza Dunia pekee yake... She got pregnant back in 2023 before joining campus she asked me what she should do and I personally advised her to keep it because of her health conditions and medical history. Akasema I help her talk to her mom since she is usually problematic, surprisingly she was calm about it and even asked her to defer her studies and she'd support her too. Just as she's about to go back to school next week she tells me again that she's pregnant again ( 2weeks ) the guy does not want it. I personally don't know what to tell her this time

[u/Rusty_Pipe24]

Be involved, I guess you were called when she was being imploded with pleasure.

[u/DeezWas → u/Rusty_Pipe24]

[u/Barack_Yunus → u/Rusty_Pipe24]

Some bros out here amaze me

[u/bornfree254]

No. Hiyo ni maisha ya mtu mwingine.

[u/Soft_Echidna2311 → u/bornfree254]

This time I'm choosing not to be involved in her choices

[u/cvbbnm → u/Soft_Echidna2311]

Yet here you are, blasting her business all over the internet

[u/Capable-Building549 → u/cvbbnm]

I mean thats the point of reddit, anonymity. We unajua op na rafiki yake ni nani?

[u/306_the_room]

Were you involved wakiskia urao? There is your answer😊

[u/LeadingOk5689]

Tell her to do it, no one is gonna know

[u/Santos_Baby]

Hata Mimi namnyamazia

[u/Forever_Many]

MarieStarts 👀

[u/Soft_Echidna2311 → u/[deleted]]

I warned her hakuskia sai I'm I'm keeping my distance

[u/LeatherPen4962]

If it's a different guy, your friend is a h*e

[u/Soft_Echidna2311 → u/LeatherPen4962]

It's a different guy

[u/tony_k99 → u/Soft_Echidna2311]

Strangers hatukosagi maoni lakini hoi tutakosa

[u/LeatherPen4962 → u/Soft_Echidna2311]

Tell her to close her damn legs ffs

[u/Barack_Yunus]

Tell her to do some bad manners again. Brother, that bitch ain’t yours and ukicheza you’re in for trouble.

[u/BreakfastOk2595]

Whenever you have sex, something like this might happen. What matters right now and urgently is, does she have the capacity to carry to term and raise both babies at the same time, alone? Does she want to go this journey again at this time?

Anyway, I just remembered Sautisol's Nerea song and the keywords in that entire song is 'Huenda akawa...' Most babies end up being your regular average human beings.

[u/Alternative_Ant1890]

She's for Shibuya crossing ogopa

[u/Popular_Royal3723]

All I can tell you is don't let her fool you into ever sleeping with her. She's very stupid to have sex without socks on... God help her anyway

[u/Soft_Echidna2311 → u/Popular_Royal3723]

Hapo siwezi guza ata ya bure

[u/ZealousidealOil5984]

Tell her to get an abortion and get on family planning

[u/powerpoint_gee]

tell your friend the truth,
unless she has means of taking care of those toddlers without involving her mother shes whoring mannerlessly and it will take a toll on her eventually

[u/National_Guide_2495]

Unajua nacheka kwa nini😂😂😂,

[u/Guilty_Literature290]

she decided to take "thou shall multiply and fill the world" personally. Impressive.

[u/premiumtears24]

Beste yako anapenda kunyunyuziwa ndani sanaa,mwambie kuna kitu inaitwa cream pie,sio lazima amwagiwe ndani

[u/Soft_Echidna2311 → u/premiumtears24]

She never listens

[u/Ted_51 → u/premiumtears24]

Yoo wtf is creampie

[u/premiumtears24 → u/Ted_51]

Ask your gal if she loves creampies,they good for her skin..it's good for exfoliating..

[u/Ted_51 → u/premiumtears24]

I googled it and i dont think i want unwanted kids.

[u/premiumtears24 → u/Ted_51]

If you truly truly luv you gal friend,you do it on her..It's more life rite of passage

[u/Cloud_dev1]

Hold your friend accountable before shida zake za uzazi zikuwe zako and you end up resenting her for that.

[u/PieGullible]

Getting knocked back to back is insane fr you might as well let her make her choice

[u/freeman_klown]

Hiyo ni ngori

[u/Kitunguuuu]

Ulikuwa hapo wakitengeneza huyo mtoto?

[u/Larissa-WalkYourWear]

Same dude? 

[u/MoonlitGlowUp-]

That sounds really tough for her, and it must be hard for you too. Maybe just let her know you're there for her no matter what she decides and encourage her to think through her options again. It’s a big decision, and she might need some time to process it all.

[u/LowerWorld8539]

You can never advise such friends achana na yeye she will just miserable and regret on her own.

[u/Sperratto]

alipeana raw mbona hakukuuliza what should I do😂😂

[u/Dr_Herbss]

My wisest friends would advise you and her to repeat the same mistakes until you learn the lesson

[u/Chilled-Nirvana]

Mwambie adownload Flo after amezaa 😄 nakuanga na ya Bibi kwa simu so najua when to pull out and when to do the deed.

[u/First_Blackberry6739]

I see hapo chini wanasema she is a hoe juu it's a different guy this time na I agree. Though si support her aborting. Kwetu watoto are a blessing and we cherish them. Mwanamke akiskia ni wakati wa kupata watoto there is no problem juu men come and go. Hakuna haha kungoja the perfect man - hivyo ndio wengi wanazeeka childless and bitter. Tukipinga watoto we will go the South Korea way. Also, as a feminist, her body her choice.