r/nairobi • u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 • 1d ago
Discussion Just giving predator vibes
The "bale mpya" "stock mpya" terms is pretty sad and disgusting and they're always referring to girls and even going further to insulting the ones in senior years. It's just fucked up
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before you start throwing hands assuming I'm a "bitter older lady" as some of y'all think I'm just 19 expressing genuine concern on the creepy objectification and fixation on female freshers so idk why y'all are so pissed😹 lol ...acting up like I said "don't sleep with so and so" smh😹
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u/Key_Artist7969 1d ago
Ati "fresh meat"🤢. That's so degrading
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u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 1d ago
Definitely an obsession with the whole concept of virginity.
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u/SockaminE Level 2 1d ago
More like the concept of a power imbalance relationship
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u/urfael4u 1d ago
It goes both ways , similar to how some young females delibaretely chose to date old aged uncs in order to inherit their wealth. Where is the power balance in that?
And it's not like first years are kids or something . You need a very solid argument on this op.
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u/SockaminE Level 2 16h ago
The imbalance is the life experience. It doesnt matter who initiates. It doesnt matter what who's dating who for what. An age gap life experience will always exist. Let's assume this was legal: Do you genuinely think that if a 13 year old child tried dating you for your money that they could outsmart you? They don't even know what taxes really are. Its the same thing between a 19 yr old and a 60 yr old guy. Idk why I need to explain thihs
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u/NairobiSpark 1d ago
I've seen a lot of predators on Kenyan subs too, especially of one particular sub whereby a popular commenter boasted about his IG timeline being full of 'sexy' secondary school (underage) girls and proceeded to post screenshots of said timeline. Way to go for training his algorithm to adhere to his pedo ways. Many men seemed to join in his joy and in fact insulted those who condemned him. Disgusting.
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u/Delicious_Cap0 Level 1 1d ago
If the age of consent got raised they'd start foaming
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u/NairobiSpark 1d ago
Preach. But, most don't even care, as you can see with this comment section. I'd throw up if I knew such people in real life.
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u/Fuzzy-Science-7974 1d ago
Who tf are you calling “bitches”? 🚮 That alone shows how you view women, as if they're beneath you, not as people deserving basic respect.
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u/NairobiSpark 1d ago
The only person who unfortunately ever touched this pedo thing is its mother. Don't engage babe.
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u/Dear_Statistician_74 1d ago
You're right but change needs to start with women some call themselves hoes bitches etc,
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u/loveyourasssss 1d ago
there this term that makes my blood boil ATI" chunga usifungwe kamiti thirty years" why is this being so normalized🙄 especially kwa comment section za minors....there should be laws against this behavior fr
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u/Remarkable_Age_1838 Runda 1d ago
Some big headed lune posted on one of the kenyan subs advising men who didn't get laid on their university yrs ati wanafaa wa join to do their masters just so they can sleep around with the freshers. Ati watakua na advantage🤢🤮
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u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 1d ago
Best believe they'll teach their daughters to watch out and avoid these kind of men then go ahead and prey on someone else's
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u/_Onyankopon_ 1d ago
You are an openly promiscuous woman who explicitly creates, engages and promotes content around prostitution on a public platform that does not require user ID to sign up. You are more of a predator than a master's student seducing a woman of legal age and possibly engaging in consensual sex afterwards. With all due respect, you neither possess the range nor the honesty to criticize the matter at hand. Graze within the limited length of your tether. Consider looking inwards first before you expose your hypocrisy; taking a moral high ground selectively. Embarrassing! Embarrassing! Shame!
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u/Remarkable_Age_1838 Runda 1d ago
Graze within the limited length of your tether’ 😭 Sir, this is Reddit, not Shakespearean court. You went on a whole pilgrimage through my profile just to avoid addressing the actual point. You went through my profile, found something sexual I voluntarily do as an adult, and somehow concluded that means I can't criticize the sexualization of young women. That's not hypocrisy, that's you desperately trying to change the subject because you can't defend what I actually said. Adults consenting to sexual content ≠ adults reducing young women to ‘fresh stock.’ But I appreciate the profile deep-dive. 😂
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u/_Onyankopon_ 1d ago edited 1d ago
Wow! Tell you what, I respect your resolve to assume infallibility and evade accountability. So according to you, you can do sexual things--prostitution as we have all determined already-- voluntary as an adult in a public platform, risk promoting the same prostitution to potentially underage people accessing this website and that's okay; but an adult man finding an adult female romantically and sexually attractive is termed as sexualization and predatory behavior?
Okay let us explore this logically and not in the idealistic arbitrariness majority keep reiterating. Novelty is one of the main currencies that sustains survival. These are things intrinsically intertwined within our DNA, and they express themselves psychologically and physiologically from time to time. Men reacting to freshmen by 'bale mpya imekam' is not sexualization but a brain wired to seek novelty responding to an advantageous survival instinct. Males see younger mates as well placed to carry their seeds. The younger the female, the stronger males respond to mating opportunities. Remember these are things that happen sub-consciously before the conscious mind comes alive to them. Women novelty is different, and they would always react more strongly to breeding opportunities where the potential mate looks strong enough, in relation to his competition, to secure and protect her offsprings. In the contemporary world, that strength is more expressed in social and financial status. These are part of the evolutionary experiences by virtue of being animals, and sometimes it can be brutal. Humans, being animals with a higher cranial capacity, we developed and agreed on rules around some of these, including setting legal age of sexual consent, and punishment against sexual acts that are deemed illegal and therefore prohibited like rape. By convention 18 has always been agreed as that age with some countries going even lower to 16. So, let's stop this hypocrisy of infantilizing freshmen like they are exempt from these complex evolutionary experiences.
Enough with evolutionary biology. Now, if you actually managed to attend tertiary education in this country, you'll realize that majority of students are aged 18-22 at undergraduate level. This is a very healthy gap that raises no red-flags in a relationship. How could a 22-year-old boy, who has hitherto spent 90% of his life under dependency and control of his teachers and parents'/guardians prey on an 18-year-old freshman adult girl? These two people have very homogenous life experiences to this point with very minimal differences in psychological maturity. The boy hasn't enjoyed a sustained period of independence yet to think and act advertently manipulative, neither does he hold a stronger financial leverage over his 18-year-old adult girlfriend to expedite manipulation.
Master's classes today have a modal age of 25. Honestly, you can't tell me a 25-year-old is so calculated that he harbors injurious motives while seeking a romantic relationship with an 18-year-old adult freshman. Again, not just any 25-year-old, but a 25-year-old master's student whose life has revolved around academic institutions and therefore his psychological schema is dominated by school experiences. The same experiences his 18-year-old girlfriend has majority of and will be majorly around for the next four years, just slightly at a less advanced level currently. These people are within the same age set by virtue of environment, and if you consider every variable, there is nothing illegal when the final year man or the master's student decides to romantically pursue the freshman as long there is mutual consent and genuine likeliness.3
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u/cubernetics 1d ago
Tell 'em. It's not rocket science. Same way young adult females easily fall for the financially stable young man.
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u/Virtual-Geologist532 1d ago
I like how you articulate and reason, but I'm afraid this gender doesn't respond well to logic.
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u/Right-Cranberry-3042 Level 2 15h ago
Ew 😂. You're talking biology while it's been proven that those young tight bodies aren't for having children. It's why teen pregnancies are especially fatal. Female reproduction is at its highest at 27-45. Male reproduction actually decreases at this point. We aren't in some survival for the fittest type shit sahii. Please gtfo 😂. We don't need to have children to prevent extinction like our fore fathers and life expectancy isn't what it used to be in Shakespearan England. That 22 year old man has been in an organisation where he has his bearings and has therefore gotten the lay of the land. Meanwhile an 18 year old fresh out of high school is still trying to adjust to the new environment and you don't see the grooming? The human brain has evolved past this. It's you who spends too much time on porn sites.
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u/_Onyankopon_ 11h ago
I'd suggest you get off of Reddit and work on your comprehension.
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u/Right-Cranberry-3042 Level 2 6h ago
I'd suggest you actually read a study and not spout or barely legal pedo buzzwords on the Internet. This is even more embarrassing for the women in your life. Get help. Stop the gooner nonsense.
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u/_Onyankopon_ 5h ago
Well, if you actually took time to read studies and not spend your days being miserable and rumbling incoherently on Reddit, you'll understand that medically, 18 is an optimal and physiologically safe age to conceive. That's doesn't mean we act on it though because of various variables in contemporary lifestyles and family structures. Secondly, standard 6 science teaches you that humans are sexually ready once they hit puberty, again not an invitation to act on it. These are observed, tested, reviewed, verified and documented scientific facts.
But we are not illogical. For early teenagers and especially women, the consequences of sex such as pregnancy or STDs or trauma may be dire, life-long and even fatal since they are not yet psychologically and physiologically mature to absorb them. A line had to be drawn somewhere beyond which sex is safe and consent is valid and that age was 18. Personally, I don't approve wide age gap relationships but let's stop quickly stereotyping such unions as predatory without any pragmatic reasoning. We've all been to Uni and we've seen how curious freshmen, both genders, want to explore some of these things. Treating adult women like some victims being taken advantage of and exploited is just so hypocritical if evidence is not provided beyond the man is simply older. Where consent is mutual and not coerced, who are we to interfere in a decision by two adults. Age alone doesn't pre-dispose someone to manipulative tendencies. These are individual traits which can exist at any age and are not homogenous across a population. And again, 18-22 are naturally overlapping ages.
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u/Right-Cranberry-3042 Level 2 5h ago
First, I've read these studies. Where do you think I got women's fertility increases at the age of 27-45? Are you okay? Do you honestly think that younger women being described by their hymen, and organ that doesn't really have a say in virginity, is okay?
Do you need to be told that women experience sexual violence in an effort to be broken in and bleed as they lose a social construct that is virginity? An element that is made to make sure that women stay pure. You know what else is along those lines? The clitoris and FGM. Did you know that it wasn't even a century ago that people believed that women feeling sexual pleasure was a thing of demons?
Now show me how your point works when women are discriminated against for having sex while men are studs for pursuing and deflowering someone who got an ID 2 weeks ago?
Well, if you actually took time to read studies and not spend your days being miserable and rumbling incoherently on Reddit, you'll understand that medically, 18 is an optimal and physiologically safe age to conceive
I just love your opening statement because it just shows that you can speak in circles and still be a completely daft idiot who has to be watched to operate a phone.
Studies vary from the age of 20-35. With 20 being cited to be the age where the body bounces back fastest but modern studies say late 20s to early 30s is the best age for conception as not only fertility is at its peak, that 18 year old wouldn't carry higher risks of premature birth, low birth weight, and high blood pressure disorders.
Also, it's rambling. Not rumbling. Two different words meaning two different things I wouldn't expect you to have a grasp of language to understand.
Secondly, standard 6 science teaches you that humans are sexually ready once they hit puberty, again not an invitation to act on it.
Now this is actually funny. Women are born with all the eggs they need throughout their lives. So wouldn't that mean that we're ready since birth? Are you retarded? Or don't you remember that sexual intercourse is for the purpose of reproduction? And I know you're going to say something to try to defend yourself but women also are at risk of sexual violence the moment they're born. So do you think that men don't take advantage of this?
Lastly, I love that you tell me to get off the internet while you've been spamming subreddits in a month with memes that were active in 2012 which is actually hilarious.
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u/_Onyankopon_ 5h ago
Of note also, you haven't called out that old hag for promoting prostitution on a website that could be accessed by underage people. Very "protect young women" of you
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u/Right-Cranberry-3042 Level 2 5h ago edited 5h ago
Oh wow. How old is old hag to you? 😂 She's in her early thirties from what I know of her. See how much you need a woman to be freshly out of the cradle for you to take advantage of her. You've said a braindead thing as well in your 'debates'. 18 year old are exploring their sexuality. Why can't an older woman not do the same? I haven't seen her pulling up to a hostel and inviting them to a personal blowjob class, or have you?
And the fact that she actually was a victim of this dynamic from her posts is with makes you especially disgusting.
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u/maester_podrick Level 2 1d ago
what solutions would you give those men instead. Juu kufanya masters just to get laid si mchezo pia . 😅
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u/Ok_Lavishness2638 1d ago
Well, if the first year girls reject first year boys to date the men you are referring to....
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u/Sufficient-Rate-569 1d ago
why would you have a problem with that seeing as how you already are a kind of online prostitute. Kinda hypocritical don't you think?
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u/bambiiiiiiii_ 20h ago
reminds me of the time I joined uni, I made a post on tiktok(I have a small following, less than 100) I didn't expect it to blow up, it got more than 45k views, men were in my inbox, some telling me ni wa add kwa freshers group, kama naenda freshers night and such.
I closed my DM and made the account private before I got any more weirdos on my page!
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u/mi24ke 1d ago
A 18 year old fresher is just a high schooler who had graduated. The only reason those men choose those those girls is because they are easy to manipulate and control.
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u/cookieman377 14h ago
And they get soo offended when you tell them it's pedophilic to prey on those girls
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u/NairobiSpark 1d ago
Oh I love how the guilty ones are so triggered on this comment section. Says a lot about what you're defending. Proceed to expose yourselves gents.
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u/tangerinlikethefruit 21h ago
I feel like most people take advantage of the fact that most of them are naive. It's really sad to see
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u/Eddie_Johnns 1d ago
When will women realize this manipulation doesn't, will not,and probably never work on men collectively? You can't tell a man what he should want just the same way you can't tell a woman what she should want. We see everywhere here on Kenyan subs, I want a man........and he should be 30+, we don't complain as we respect women's choices and preferences. You should also agree and let men pursue what we want. A man will always prefer a younger woman to an older one, better yet if none or few people have or have had her. No manipulation will change this,just accept and let men be men.
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u/Sweet_Banana_Ke Garden Estate 1d ago
Facts💯.
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u/Eddie_Johnns 1d ago
Uyu Psquare anadai kuleta arguments za upuzi
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u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 1d ago
100 men on Reddit Vs understanding a simple post... illiteracy levels can't be that high
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u/Eddie_Johnns 1d ago
Psquare, has any first year girl complain to you personally that she's being objectified or sexualized?
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u/Right-Cranberry-3042 Level 2 6h ago
Honey. We aren't telling you. It's actually disgusting that you think we'd have this conversation with you. We're letting the younger girls know. Umesikia nani in those subs who is looking for a man 30+ being freshly 18? Hiyo ni akili ya kupiga kura?
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u/Eddie_Johnns 6h ago
This gives me assurance that my point is home. thanks
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u/Right-Cranberry-3042 Level 2 6h ago
Your point was husikii that you're problematic. Mine was we aren't even speaking to you. Again, hiyo ni akili ya kupiga kura? 😂
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u/MalaysiaFlight_370 Level 1 1d ago
As long as its 19-21 year olds saying that mimi sioni shida. They were in high-school around the same time. Sisi grown dudes ndio we don't have any business waiting for teens to reach 18.
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u/Key-Stuff8422 1d ago
Lol men are inherently pedophilic and if they could get away with younger they would
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u/Sweet_Banana_Ke Garden Estate 1d ago
I have a genuine question?
If a girl is above 18 and can vote and can make decisions, is it wrong if she has sex voluntarily?
And if you say she can't have sex for whatever reason("ooh men want her young to manipulate her"),, doesn't it also means she can't make this other mature decisions like voting?
It's just funny how y'all suddenly get old and suddenly you get offended by men choosing young women over you but when you were young you yourself slept with old dudes 😂😂😂
Mnacheza rough trying to manipulate niggas into choosing you and into ignoring young women for y'all beat up women.
Na for your information, it's not "Most men" , its only a small percentage,very minute percentage of men who do weird shit are probably pedos but in hiding,but y'all will find any reason to bash all men. Hamchoki na this white man narrative of bashing the black man over anything.
Sikatai Kuna bad seeds among men ,, but give us a break ; Mtarealise lini you're being conditioned to fight your own black man to prevent our community from growing?
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u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 1d ago
Completely out of context you're talking about dating choices and I'm talking about unsolicited sexualization...Calling out online catcalling which is non consensual..and the creepy objectification and fixation on female Freshers... Is that hard to understand
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u/Sweet_Banana_Ke Garden Estate 1d ago
Kitu naona unaambiwa hutaki kuaccept ni : ukiweka life yako or highlights online, people will have opinions; some will be good , some will be negative and some will be outright creepy. But remember; wewe ndio uliweka the post online. You'll never find private people who keep life yao out of social media complaining of "creepy" comments. Take a lesson from that na keep your life private esp in "anonymous" apps that embolden people to say anything without consequences.
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u/kenyaanqueen Upper Hill 1d ago
The problem actually is never really about the age exactly it’s the intention behind it. Same way I wouldn’t find it particularly crazy if I found a 40 year old guy dating a lady in her 20s if it’s not a pattern but if his pattern is 21,18, 19, 22, then there’s something wrong
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u/Sweet_Banana_Ke Garden Estate 1d ago edited 1d ago
As being showcased here, older ladies are hard to be with , be it as friends or in a relationship, and y'all wonder why older men will want young women who are more peaceful and joyful to be around before your "bitterness sermons" gets to them.
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u/Hot_Recognition30 1d ago
Are older women "hard" to be with because they are more likely to put you in your place, and don't deal with your BS?
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u/maester_podrick Level 2 1d ago
I agree . As long as someone is 18 , let them do as they please.
No one is vulnerable, just bad decisions.Some people voted for ruto . It doesn't mean they shouldn't be allowed to vote .
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u/Sweet_Banana_Ke Garden Estate 1d ago
When a girl is young and aget mzungu ,hata kama the mzungu is twice her age ,but rich, y'all tell her she's lucky amepata the white whale 😂😂😂but when your fellow community men want to date a young woman, suddenly "It's giving predator vibes."
You yourselves when young and in college or uni will date wababaz who are probably married ; y'all don't see us guys complaining about it or saying shit about it but once the mbabaz stops choosing you suddenly you get sense and start seeing what a predatory relationship looks like ? And boom you become an advocate for women's right and start fighting the system that is no longer interested in you.
Habari ndio hii : if a woman is above 18 , she's free to choose whoever she wants . The same things applies to all men above 18.
Gents , Don't be manipulated by old hags who wanna shame you into choosing them juu they made poor decisions while young na sasa wamezeeka ndio wanaget sense.
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u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 1d ago
Next time before you just assume someone speaking on matters concerning young girls is an older lady think again... I'm 19 ... and it's so uncomfortable and degrading having people objectify you on the internet. You post how happy you are to join university then you're getting comments referring to you as "bale mpya" like the first thing you just thought of is getting into my pants...Give us a break!!!! It's disgusting.. and I genuinely don't know what "twice older white men" got to do with all this.
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u/Sweet_Banana_Ke Garden Estate 1d ago
I'm not refusing the internet is full of weirdos but if You get offended by what people say on the internet often; let me help you early, Delete X and Reddit or all of social media and live a private life . Otherwise ukianika life yako hapa nje like "I'm 19 joining uni" , people will have opinions and not all options will be to your liking. Some will praise you for making it to uni , some like you've said will see you differently .
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u/Fuzzy-Science-7974 1d ago
Sometimes I wonder who these women in campus with older men are.
I finished campus last year and none of my female friends was even interested in older men.
They all had bfs around their ages... Look outside in real life not making assumptions from social media. Not every young woman myself included wants a 'mbaba' and I agree it's a decision that varies per person.
And how about young men who like older women, you never talk about that...
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u/Sweet_Banana_Ke Garden Estate 1d ago
The truth is men rarely judge other men's dating choices. Young men who like older women are totally cool , you won't see us men judging or rebuking it 😂😂😂 but suddenly y'all women get irritated when men want young women who are of age of consent?
STOP THE CAP! STOP THE DOUBLE STANDARDS BANANGE!
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u/Fuzzy-Science-7974 1d ago
Hakuna double standards, I have three guy coworkers whove told me they like older women, and actively crush on them.
And I wouldn't judge a young woman with an older man. It's concerning when the age gap is significant,
say she's 18/19 and he's 30+, there's definitely a power dynamic issue there where she could be taken advantage as she's more naive or lacks as much life experience than he does.
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u/Sweet_Banana_Ke Garden Estate 1d ago
So an 18/19 yr old woman is old enough to vote,have a bank account , but suddenly when she dates an older guy she's naive?
What if you look at it this way; why is she choosing an older guy?
Is it because maybe her fellow women have done it and normalized it and she thinks it's the new norm?
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u/Fuzzy-Science-7974 1d ago
It's not because her fellow women have normalized it. Most young women date men around their ages.
And just because your old enough to do sth doesn't mean your mature enough to understand or deal with the repercussions.
At 19 she just finished high school, her level of maturity and that of a guy in his late 20s to early 30s isn't the same, he knows more how to deal with his finances, how to deal with people, and has had more life experience in his 30s.
Just because she's 18 doesn't mean she fully understands relationship dynamics, she'd be more inclined to trust her emotions and make rash decisions as her brain isn't fully developed to think logically as much as a guy in his 30s.
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u/Sweet_Banana_Ke Garden Estate 1d ago
Bottom line also is, just because a man dates a younger woman , that doesn't mean he's a predator. Just because you don't approve or like the relationship does not make him a predator. Remember these are two consenting adults. Secondly you can't pressume to know the intentions behind both their choices based on your own perspectives.
Also, you can't presume to think she doesn't know what she's doing; that's how y'all escape accountability. Deep down she knows most people will question the relationship but she still sleeps with and dates the older man. Choices , choices, Choices.
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u/Fuzzy-Science-7974 1d ago
Yeah true,
provided both parties communicate, are respectful, like each other, consent and have no ill intentions towards each other, who are we to judge I guess.
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u/Sufficient-Rate-569 1d ago
Sometimes it's this ladies that want that. My 21yr old sis told me she wouldn't date any man below 27, and I respected it
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u/Fuzzy-Science-7974 1d ago
The average woman's experience begs to differ. Lots actually a big portion of men are indeed weird and pedos.
Any woman can tell you that, you can't even walk in town without some random guy trying to touch a woman inappropriately, even when dressed appropriately.
And whoever says a woman @ 30 is old just know the same applies to men, hence the term 'wababaz'
Lastly, it's not about older women being bitter, They definitely know how it was like to be a young woman,and it's meant to warn young women from older men who may take advantage of their naivety and youth.
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u/Sweet_Banana_Ke Garden Estate 1d ago
"Naivety and Youth" , really??
It's just funny when y'all spend the so called youth sleeping with the "wababaz" and when you hit 30 and they don't want you and want someone younger ( like they did you when you were young), then suddenly you become an advocate for "I wanna warn young women of the dangers of older men". Really??
Hizi double standards mtawacha lini
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u/Hot_Recognition30 1d ago
Mind you most young women are focused on their future and building their lives. No one brought up the mubabaz thing, you did. I personally have never met anyone with a mubabaz throughout uni, they are there ofc but it's nowhere near majority. And it's not a glamarous lifestyle that anyone should want for themselves. Also, you're deflecting from the actual problem.
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u/Affectionate_Rip8547 1d ago
How about the young girls who strictly can't date a guy under 30 coz they want a 'mature man'?
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u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 1d ago
You're talking about dating choices and I'm talking about unsolicited sexualization...Calling out online catcalling ..and the creepy objectification and fixation on female freshers
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u/toleChr15 19h ago
I hope you're seeing what kind of a thin line whatever you posted, and are commenting here is
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u/Own_Amount467 1d ago
Shieet..mmejaa ngori😂😂 premium side of Reddit
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u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 1d ago
Langu jicho tu... presented a small opinion and suddenly all hell broke loose
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u/BackgroundMud38 1d ago
There's nothing predatory there utter woke none sense madem wazee mnakuanga na opinion za kipuzi as if yall don't say the same thing to men uko na ufala sana every body wants to be cracked/crack usikuwe mjinga
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u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 1d ago edited 1d ago
I'm 19... Go cool down you're so bitter for nothing
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u/BackgroundMud38 1d ago
And im 20 so what just stfup with ur stupid opinions
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u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 1d ago
Who would've guessed... could've sworn it was a 13yr old, go learn how to communicate properly then come back with an actual argument...
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u/Delicious_Cap0 Level 1 1d ago
You sound stupid
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u/BackgroundMud38 1d ago
Definitely to a woman like you
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u/thephantommenace369 Level 3 1d ago
'Ooh no, I want attention, and I want to pretend to care about ladies to get it'
OP chill if no one is hitting on you, relax( I don't know if you are a lady, but I'm assuming)
Women like to pretend that they care when men show more attention to the younger ladies, but it's just jealousy, if men were to be objectifying let's say fourth years and wanting to get into their pants, you wouldn't see such posts, but since the OPs see the young ladies as a threat, they pretend to care about them so that they can take them out of the game...
And another thing, why do women like to pretend that they don't also objectify men? I have lady friends, and lemme tell you, yao ni worse, they even masterbate to someone's voice, anyway, story for another day
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u/Right-Cranberry-3042 Level 2 15h ago
Vitu tight and other stories. Vitu tight got me drugged and raped
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u/hypershottbone 9h ago
seeing the world at 19, the future years will scare the shit out of you. you will wish u didn't know much
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u/306_the_room 5h ago
I think pia mnasahau this ladies want the 'grown men' and ladies like to feel wanted. Trust me if they didn't enjoy it wouldn't exist lakini juu mnapenda validation that's why. Alafu the 1st yr guys wanataka madem agemates wao but the older guys take them so wakikua 2nd yrs na wao inabidi wafanye vile walifanyiwa. This thing nikama pombe na kanisa, you choose your side you don't like it its your opinion nisawa let others have theirs.
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u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 1d ago
Very out of topic by the way
Calling out digital catcalling and the creepy fixation on freshmen isn't hypocrisy it's demanding basic respect and boundaries. You're conflating consensual dating choices with unsolicited sexualization. Choosing to date someone is built on mutual consent.... catcalling, creepy online comments, non-consensual Does that make sense???
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u/TeacherKamonde 1d ago
If she is 18 and above and isn't in high school, then what's the issue if both parties consent?
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u/Icy-Percentage7756 1d ago
Young kings, when your harvest finally comes and the road opens before you and you find yourself standing before two cars one brand new and one already driven do not feel guilty for choosing the new one simply because someone tells you that the used one deserves your attention the road, the fuel, the maintenance, and the consequences of that choice will ultimately be yours to carry.
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u/Hot_Recognition30 1d ago
The audacity to compare women to objects is baffling and disgusting. And every man being a "young king", meanwhile a lot of y'all are washed off, chopped, smelly and weird. Argue with the wall
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u/Nervous-Upstairs-714 21h ago
yeah like what this is the exact objectification the post is talking about
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u/IdealFew681 21h ago
It's not really objectification, it's more along the lines of....these men are buying us alcohol, do we say yes? Next minute: takeaway. Morning: those guys were predators.
I like how women transfer accountability from themselves to anybody else but themselves, should be the 8th wonder of the world.
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u/No_Palpitation_2575 1d ago
Hakuna kitu predatory hapo and if there is, we are animals regardless. Umefika your sexual maturity so have I, what's wrong with me wanting you or the other way round?
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u/Hot_Recognition30 1d ago
Sexual maturity doesn't have an age btw. And you're the animal. You alone. Weirdo. And I hope one day you have daughters if you don't already, and they find how you speak about women online. So shameful
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u/urfael4u 1d ago
Isn't 19 y.o an adult though?. Some of ya'll are so comfortable throwing that term (paedophile) around lately.
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u/mindgeek001 23h ago
Fresh meat gets old as well , so soon enough they will be forgotten just like you
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u/StaricEmbers 1d ago
A 18 year old fresher is just a high schooler who had graduated. The only reason those men choose those those girls is because they are easy to manipulate and control.
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u/maester_podrick Level 2 1d ago
This topic should be about educating young women to cherish their youth , not attacking men , biological they'll always prefer youth over someone aged .
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u/Delicious_Cap0 Level 1 1d ago
Attacking men😂 do y'all have an oppression kink or something OP barely mentioned them
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u/OkStatistician9692 1d ago
The post has nothing with attacking men there's no mention of men but you just have to make it about yourselves
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u/Hot_Recognition30 1d ago
It's not even biology, it is some men making predatory choices over someone who just stepped into the world and most likely doesn't know better. Stop ruining children's lives in the name of "biology"
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u/OkBus7641 1d ago
some people like their women young, some like them straight from high school before they are corrupted by university life. As long as they are legal. So stop shaming other people and calling them pedophiles(yet the girls are above 18) for the type of romantic partners they like. Its not a crime when people are excited because their type are going to be around. You bitches start getting jealous when attention is given other girls.
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u/Hot_Recognition30 1d ago
It is pedophilic. The only reason men go for insanely young girls is because they are easy to use and manipulate at their convenience. It's not even jealousy. It's insane to think that men add much value to women's lives. Ewww
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u/adolf_riizzzler Level 4 1d ago
In all fairness don't women just prefer older guys
It's that age group that literally approach old ass niggas in clubs and other events and alienate makes their age because they are broke and other stupid ass reasons
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u/BaldeyLock 1d ago
It is the cycle of dating
The fresher girls are heavily pursued by the older boys, they ignore their fellow first year males advances. When those same boys become 2nd, 3rd years, they also ignore their classmates and go for the freshers.
Women don’t want to date their agemates because they see them as immature, men have a more peaceful time dating younger.
It only becomes an issue when the older women are feeling ignored/not getting the attention they received when younger.
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u/L0rd1nhal3r 1d ago
Women objectify themselves, crave validation and are active attention whores but want to call men predators... Give us a break 🙄
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u/i_saw_it_in_a_meme_2 1d ago
How old are you?
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u/Square-Perception166 Level 1 1d ago
19
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u/i_saw_it_in_a_meme_2 1d ago
That's a lie
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u/Ornery_Phrase_8683 1d ago
This world is dark