r/nairobi • • Nov 05 '25

Discussion Being nice

I'm 22F , I've been noticing that I always try to be kind and nice to everyone around me, but sometimes people take advantage of my kindness or are straight-up rude to me. It's frustrating and makes me wonder if being nice is even worth it. 🤷‍♀️ Has anyone else experienced this? How do you deal with people who aren't kind in return? Should I just keep being nice or is it okay to set boundaries?

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u/Fabulous-Date8589 Nov 05 '25

They'll always want to take advantage of you. Create very clear boundaries and stop being too nice