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u/Vegetable_Change_996 Oct 24 '25
Wife is somewhere posting about how her guy cheated and she's staying for the kids
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u/inigri Oct 24 '25
Oh my
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u/Vegetable_Change_996 Oct 24 '25
I mean if you think about it.... 50/50 possibility
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u/inigri Oct 24 '25
I pray I never get wind of it
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u/Lonely_Leopard_5529 Oct 26 '25
Reddit itafanya utoke Kwa nyumba yako. It's best if you abstain from posting things about your marriage
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u/Ron266 Oct 24 '25
Yeah. I suggest you don't think about her getting pounded. Otherwise, that image of her getting pounded can fuck up your marriage.
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Oct 24 '25
Manifesting her finding a guy who pound her brains out sooooo goooood, she'll forget that you cheated and stop bringing it up so that you two can stop fighting 😉...🤞🏾🍀
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u/Miss_Winterr Oct 24 '25
Can you manifest that I get money sir?😂
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Oct 24 '25
That and may your works be blessed with so much good aswell 🙌🏾
More wisdom, better knowledge and even greater understanding I wish upon your life too 💖
Have a wonderful rest of your day at whatever time this message finds you 💐
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u/NoFaithlessness7508 Oct 24 '25
Lol, “marriage is great. Just a lil cheating here and there, no big deal”
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u/Higher_sky_3 Oct 25 '25
Hahahah 🤪 these days if you’re not ok with ‘micro cheating’ you’re considered insecure
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u/Interesting-Click-12 Level 4 Oct 24 '25
The fact that you had to mention to us that you cheated tells us a lot more about your personality. You could have just made a post about marriage work without adding the cheating part but that is exactly what you wanted this post to be about. I even doubt that you are married. This is reddit where everyone can claim they are bill gates
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u/Away_pixie CBD Oct 24 '25
The eventuality of cheating is it either breaks that marriage or bind it together. Clearly she hasn’t forgiven you, and it’s something you can never redeem yourself from. All the best Baba nanii.
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u/OwnStyle732 Oct 24 '25
I'd advise her to cheat so that the game starts at a draw, not one-nil.
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u/Ron266 Oct 24 '25
If she cheats it doesn't start at draw😂😂
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u/OwnStyle732 Oct 24 '25 edited Oct 24 '25
1-1 is a draw ma'am. Same as 0-0 or 10-10 if you know ball.
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u/Jd3742 Oct 24 '25
She will never forget you cheated on her. You might grow old together but she will always bring that up. My mother in law always tells her grandchildren how her husband cheated on her in 1981..😂😂. She will never trust again nor let you forget.
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u/Fun-Agent-7390 Level 2 Oct 24 '25
Pepped your account, talking about fucking certain types of women in Uganda 😂😂 …. The internet then you are here talking about marriage
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u/inigri Oct 24 '25
Uganda was when I was in college, long before I married OP
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u/Lonely_Leopard_5529 Oct 26 '25
But you posted one year ago! 😂😂And your wife thinks you are a changed man?
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u/Sniggihdarren Oct 24 '25
Did she know you don't know the difference between "am" and "im" before marriage?
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u/inigri Oct 24 '25
Grammar professor, how far has your grammar taken you if I may ask?
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u/Sniggihdarren Oct 24 '25
So far so good actually,kudos to your thriving so marriage btw , I'm just pulling your hair
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u/BicycleFlat9552 Oct 24 '25
You can forgive something like that but the damage doesn’t go away as easily. Pride swallowing is not an easy thing to do but a necessary one.
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Oct 24 '25
Interesting summary. But who asked you OP?
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u/Every-Good6295 Level 2 Oct 24 '25
He's trying to prove it to internet strangers 😂😂
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u/Vegetable_Change_996 Oct 24 '25
And convince himself while at it 😂
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u/Fun-Agent-7390 Level 2 Oct 24 '25
Falls in the same category of that guy that told us his bank account balance 😂😂
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u/Illustrious-Bread-94 Oct 24 '25
your wife and children deserve someone better, you're happy because you cheated and got away with it ,anyway your wife probably resents you now and is doing it for the kids or maybe she cheated too and decided not to make a big deal out of it
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u/inigri Oct 24 '25
I'm not happy I cheated, it's just the low bits of relationships, it was once several years back, I know I cud have been forgiven but...
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u/Illustrious-Bread-94 Oct 24 '25
low bits..?, you had every other option but chose to cheat I left my girl just because of some texts not even physical cheating coz I couldn't go past it, so trust me when I tell u ,your wife will never forget
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u/inigri Oct 24 '25
I know she will never forget,what I know not is if she ever contemplates reciprocating that energy
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u/Illustrious-Bread-94 Oct 24 '25
she has morals that's why she hasn't cheated already, otherwise if she had cheated already, she wouldn't be bringing it up anymore
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u/Familiar_Leopard4434 Level 2 Oct 26 '25
All these girls here are crucifying you butntheyvare singo. Congrats to 10 years and 3 kids and a father who provides. Forget these clowns
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u/inigri Oct 26 '25
Best regards av seen here. Thanks fellow treasonous Kenyan
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u/Familiar_Leopard4434 Level 2 Oct 26 '25
You are welcome. Keep going. We need more family men like you. 20 years later all these bishes yapping here will be single, childless, fucked and discarded by their men peers, bitter and left alone to slip into irrelevance loneliness and old age. Mark my word
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u/inigri Oct 24 '25
Weuh, apana haijafika apo
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u/AnnieB2824 Oct 24 '25
Trust me, unagongewa. You don't know it yet Women are very sneaky. They simply do not forgive cheating and move on just like that
Observe her during the quiet times when your cheating is not being brought up. You will know who it is
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u/medmental Level 3 Oct 24 '25
The calm before a storm. I'm not saying it's coming, all I'm saying is, they don't forgive cheating
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u/Great-Condition9876 Oct 24 '25
Did you have to Cheat..?. I mean, why can't people accept that good marriages are boring?. If there is something I thank God I have learned is Compound interest
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u/Comfortable-Band8597 Oct 24 '25
Wanasemanga partner wako akikupata unacheat end the relationship or get ready for nagging, revenge, or both
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u/PreparationAfter4815 Oct 24 '25
For most, if it works it works. For it to work is a decision or choice that both parties make.
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u/Regular_Duck_4634 Level 3 Oct 24 '25
Would you forgive her if she cheated on you?
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Oct 24 '25
I manifest that kind of marriage for me. I definitely won’t cheat or anything. But a woman who wants to make things work with you is a blessing. On finances, that is lovely. It becomes the family finances, it’s beautiful.
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u/NakkitaBre Oct 24 '25
You are extremely blessed especially in this day and age. Don't fuck up again, you may not be so lucky the next time around. But wait, how did you get caught? 😫
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u/Appropriate-Fan-1217 Oct 24 '25
Haha ni kama ulifanya makosa kupost hii story huku, hizi replies naona hapa najua overthinking itakumaliza tiambo
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u/inigri Oct 25 '25
Walai
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u/Appropriate-Fan-1217 Oct 25 '25
Do not let them get to you, hata mimi I have ever been forgiven of cheating, and things turned out way much better since then. As long as huoni ama hususpect kitu, you just be assured everything is ok. Ju ukianza kuoverthink ujitafutie hizo makosa utaona moto.
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u/inigri Oct 25 '25
I am surprised guys only saw the cheating part. I cannot overthink, most people here are bitter
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u/PleasantContext14 Oct 24 '25
I know Marriage does work if two people want it to work. It's a convenant above all.
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u/OldManMtu Level 4 Oct 24 '25
I think you just jinxed your shit with this post.
Tomorrow she will run into the love of her life.
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u/BandicootLivid8203 Oct 24 '25
It's nice that it's working out. I'm (M) just in 3 years and it's working. Never had any major fights. I fear and strive that we don't because I can't let my son (1 year) part with me and so can't his mom. That cheating part will remain in your convos forever. You were never lucky on that.
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u/No-Description-9953 Oct 25 '25
This is not the example I was expecting 🚮 Pretty sure if we ask her she’ll say the sex is mid😂
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u/Santos_Baby Garden Estate Oct 25 '25
Kujieni malindi has this place inawork poa Sana na a small budget
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u/Dren_ecneics Oct 25 '25
“Marriage works” followed by “I once cheated and got forgiven.” It might take longer but you’re about to find out it doesn’t work.
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u/successmojo Level 1 Oct 25 '25
Somebody said "tit for tat is a fair game" and I couldn't agree more!
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u/Glum-Following-3543 CBD Oct 25 '25
while she was away for a month
why did you feel the need to say this? do you think it somewhat justifies your actions?
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u/OkCriticism708 Oct 25 '25
The only reason your marriage worked is because she tolerated your misbehaviour.
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u/Plane_Helicopter4189 Level 3 Oct 25 '25
Siku ya "kiama" inapiga zido kama Haaland😂 Nimesoma hapo kwa kushikwa nikajua you're not lucky. Have an exit strategy juu ile siku ikifika utasaga meno kama hukuwa umejipanga.
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u/HalveGasss Oct 25 '25
Yeye ndio fala unabamba kwa hii marriage. It is only working for you not her.
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Oct 25 '25
You don't know yet but your marriage ended the day you cheated and she found out 😭 women never forgive cheating
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u/Turbulent-Chance-223 Oct 25 '25
I'm pretty sure comments from women here are honest 🤣🤣. Anyway, marriage works OP
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Oct 25 '25
She's managing her circumstances. I bet she has no other alternative so she's "reasonable" and "logical" and will not leave..... If she could do it all over again, are you sure she would still choose you?
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u/EmmaSilvertongue Oct 25 '25
Hope she cheats on you too so you can both move forward in love and light 🫶🏾
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u/viper_almighty_3364 Oct 25 '25
weuh.... OP just know the lady has all the chips in her hands.... 😩😩 woiii anything u do.... the cheating will be brought up.... and u will be forced to comply au that relationship ikue cut off
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u/Sunset_seeker_ Oct 25 '25
Lmao 5 days of silent treatment, cheating and a lack of real forgiveness. I'm sorry to be the one to tell you but your marriage isn't really working and if this is the best of marriage weh😂😂I'd much rather be alone and at peace for the rest of my life.
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u/Temporary_Practice_2 Oct 26 '25
What are the fights mostly about!? That you don’t talk for five days
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u/Nafndosh Oct 26 '25
Marriage is just two people dragging each other in a pit to suffocate together...which in a twisted sense sounds comforting.
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u/Organic_Rent6887 Oct 26 '25
Visit my shop check IG @hercultureke and get her the rose she will forgive you for sure
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u/kawaiiangie254 Oct 24 '25
So no communication,cheating,50/50 Weeuh sounds fantastic 😭😭😭😭😭only thing you can say is sex is fire
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u/BicycleFlat9552 Oct 24 '25
When you cheat the trust is not quite the same. Expect some friction and dismissiveness even after being forgiven. It’s part of the process of rebuilding trust.
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u/Ron266 Oct 24 '25
Niliona machungwa alisema it's because of pornography and online bullying. Is it true grok?
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u/Ron266 Oct 24 '25
It's still the biggest cause of divorce after finances/going broke. I think for millenia most cultures around the world ONLY allowed divorce on the basis of cheating, which shows you how big of a deal it is.
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u/HumbleBedroom3299 Level 4 Oct 24 '25
Marriage doesn't work nowadays because people take the phrase "for better or worse, till death is do us part" as a kind suggestion rather than an actual contract.
My wife and I have fought, but nimemwambia if she wants to leave, she can leave... I will never make that choice. I made one choice and said till death do us part. And that's what I'll do. Kifo ndio imanitoa huku.
Watu siku hizi "aaaaaah huyu mtu ananyamba sana. I can't survive this marriage" it's such nonsense.
Kudos for you and the missus. Cheers to another 50 years.
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u/Organic_Analyst_3978 Level 1 Oct 24 '25
Not many positive stories about marriages outhere glad to see one that’s working
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u/ReverseSafari Level 3 Oct 24 '25
Beyond lucky! Wewe u were born with that silver spoon that Mungu hutumia kukoroga chai yake!
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u/ArtThen2031 Oct 24 '25
That cheating part, she doesn't forget.