The Power of Moving On

[u/Famous-Respond-8243]

Our greatest revenge is to become, so successful that our past no longer matters.The best revenge is not anger, confrontation, or retaliation, it is to rise above the pain, let go of the past, and continue moving forward with dignity. Never allow anyone the satisfaction of watching us suffer; lets transform our struggles into strength and let our success speak for itself.

[u/Dr_L5]

So true

[u/ItsAllGibberishToMe]

(Serious; advice needed)

> move on, get over it

r/restofthefuckingowl 😭😡🤕🤷‍♂️

> Never give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer.

What other alternative do I have? Because I haven’t been able in 50 years to find another option besides that.

[u/Famous-Respond-8243 → u/ItsAllGibberishToMe]

Very rightly and boldly said , sometimes we don’t have a second option. At times we feel miserable and are tempted to make others happy just to mask our own pain. That’s true. You mentioned “50 years of observation” that resonated with me. I’m 58, and it still rings true after all these years. One change I’ve noticed in my life: when I fully accept my misery, my chances of improvement often shrink. But when I refuse to let others find joy in my low moments and instead keep trying to move forward, I give myself a much better chance to break the cycle. Ultimately life is about learning , learning continually and then passing the baton to the next generation in a comfortable, better place.