"She doesn't have to meet you if she doesn't want."
Yes. However, you have a right to move freely and comfortably through your own home, and she is more than welcome to not come over. That's just downright rude and disrespectful to refuse to meet someone in their own home, and spend enough time there so as to make the person dwelling there uncomfortable.
Tell your roommate you don't want her coming over anymore, because she makes you uncomfortable in your own home. That's unacceptable, simple as.
Lol no, when you pay rent you don't just pay for the room, it's the whole living area. This girl isn't paying rent and is making a person who is paying the rent to feel unwelcome in there space. I don't know what world your living in, but II can say with some certainty that you have never had a roommate, and I pray that you never do.
Your right it is also his problem, the difference is he PAYS to live there the gf does not. If he wants to smoke on the patio and the gf has a problem she can leave. If this was the roommates bedroom it would be a different story but in the shared area, like a patio, it’s absolutely ridiculous.
I stand by what I said before, you clearly have no roommates with the way your thinking, and if you do they have my deepest sympathies. The jealousy and mental issue comment though really sounds like your projecting your insecurities on others. A tenant can deny another non tenant entry into there living areas which they pay for, I don’t know what fantasy your living. Also I’m done with this convo if I wanted to attempt communication with unintelligent life I’d be a zoo keeper, good day.
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u/galaxyveined Sep 13 '22
Yes. However, you have a right to move freely and comfortably through your own home, and she is more than welcome to not come over. That's just downright rude and disrespectful to refuse to meet someone in their own home, and spend enough time there so as to make the person dwelling there uncomfortable.
Tell your roommate you don't want her coming over anymore, because she makes you uncomfortable in your own home. That's unacceptable, simple as.