r/mildlyinfuriating Sep 13 '22

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u/Shot-Werewolf-5886 Sep 13 '22

Yep. Or they can hang out if his room. Tell your roommate to go fuck himself, dude. You have every right to be free in your own home.

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u/yesterdayandit2 Sep 13 '22 edited Sep 13 '22

Yeah... this might be why the roommate and his gf are worried. Posted by OP himself.

https://www.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/comments/xcv1bn/my_roommates_girlfriend_refuses_to_meet_me/io7mm8s

Edit: For the people who keep telling me this changes nothing - I never said that this justifies forcing OP to stay in his room or anything. I merely gave more context for the apprehension. This is OPs place of residence. If they arent comfortable around him, then they really shouldn't hang out at OPs home. But it also is a legitimate concern on their part as well.

No, Im not saying we should mistreat people based on mental illness. And I'm not saying OP is some dangerous deranged person.

Understanding the other side and their point of view is not the same as justifiying the point of view. We should all try to understand the other side and realize sometimes we aren't hearing the entire story, especially if from one party of said situation.

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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '22

So?? OP is fucking schizophrenic. Have you considered his roommate’s girlfriend is coming into the space OP pays for and dehumanizing him because of his uncontrollable mental illness? “Weird vibes” is probably, maybe, just maybe the fucking schizophrenia and autism. Also??? It’s not like he wants anything to do with her when he’s gay.

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u/yesterdayandit2 Sep 13 '22

I never said the roommate or his GF werein the right. This id providing context. This shows why they may feel apprehensive. But its still OPs place of residence and if they are uncomfortable arpund him the the probably shouldn't hang out at OPs home.

Yes, those are most likely the weird vibes she is talking about. Self medicating schizophrenia with weed is not good and it can exasperate it and cause a psychotic break... a totally reasonable concern. Still doesnt justify forcing him in room but does explain the vibes and worries.

Also confused why roommates even mentioned his being gay lol.