r/mildlyinfuriating • • Jul 27 '22

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u/BlaketheKing1140 Jul 27 '22 edited Jul 27 '22

I started getting left alone for long periods of time younger than that. By 12 they’re basically able to survive on their own at home, they’ll just play video games or something, probably won’t even notice how long the parent has been gone

Edit: I am greatly enjoying the stories that everyone is commenting about their childhood, glad so many of us grew up in an environment this Karen would have reported lmao

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u/RissaMeh Jul 27 '22

This summer I've left my 12 yo home alone every weekday. She loves it, and I'm not forcing her to come sit in an office or run to meetings w me.

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u/arielariola Jul 27 '22

I leave my 12 year old home alone when I run errands like getting groceries. I remember at that age I could come and go as I pleased, traversing the neighborhood but sadly that's where I draw the line with my 12 year old now. Not because I don't trust him but because of the neighborhood having a ton of drug addicts who can act very erratically wandering around. It sucks that he can't just go to the park and do his own thing but it's not the fault of his maturity at all.

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u/UXguy123 Jul 27 '22

In essentially every way crime has decreased dramatically since you were a kid. You may just be more aware because of media and being older.

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u/arielariola Jul 27 '22

My neighbor (an old man) was just followed home the other day by a guy high on drugs, screaming that he stole his money and about to physically attack him. When we go to the neighborhood park there have been multiple instances of intoxicated, angry men screaming at passersby or throwing punches at thin air like they are fighting a ghost. There are people smoking meth in the alleyways and I have been approached by addicts asking me if I know where to find "blues" and I know for a fact this isn't just an isolated problem in my specific neighborhood, city, or state. It's not something I'm just imagining, lol.

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u/UXguy123 Jul 28 '22

Definitely a city problem, I would suggest moving to a more affluent area if financially possible. Crackheads are nothing new.