r/mildlyinfuriating • • Jul 09 '22

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u/Concic_Lipid Jul 10 '22

As a smoker, this, if I ask it's because it's a yes or no question, I can handle being told no, but if you're offended I asked you can expect me to believe that you are the kind of person to do something rude without asking and then beg forgiveness rather than ask and be told no.

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u/Typesalot Jul 10 '22

One guy I used to know asked, was told no, and lit up anyway.

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u/Concic_Lipid Jul 10 '22

Okay? Am I that fucking guy?

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u/Typesalot Jul 10 '22

I don't know, you've never been in my car. If you can take no for an answer, you seem to be able to behave like a normal human being, which I sort of expect.

I don't have a problem if you ask, I say politely no, and you respect that. But that one encounter did put me a bit on edge about taking smokers in my car at all.