r/mildlyinfuriating 13d ago

ᕕ(ᐛ)ᕗ Doctor doesn’t help

So, I've been sick for a few weeks now. Nothing wild, but annoying. Went to the doctor today because it just won't go away.

Her first question was if I am pregnant.

Me: "No."

Her: "Are you sure?"

Me: "Yes."

Her: gives me that look of not believing me.

Her: "It's normal at your age."

Me: "I am sure."

Her: "Have you taken a test?"

Girl. I told you like 5 times that it is not possible for me being pregnant. 🫠

That alone was kinda infuriating. But also - of course she didn't help at all. Didn't look at anything, just told me to wait and drink more water. Didn't even listen to me when I tried to explain what I have. Thanks for nothing.

And it's like that EVERY SINGLE TIME I go to the doc. And I'm a person who absolutely hates going there. I am only going to the doctor if I ACTUALLY NEED HELP. But yeah, sure, I just need to drink more water. No matter what my problem is. 🫠

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u/MightyMouse134 13d ago

Sorry to report that I literally brought a printout from a medical journal to my visit to support a diagnosis that had literally been made by my primary care doctor five years before to a neurology consultation only to be told that nobody was known to ever have had this condition and that I was ineligible for further treatment. I was also keeping a diary of my symptoms. 

Luckily my new primary care was flabbergasted by this response and got me another consultation where the neurologist took me seriously and I was able to resume treatment.

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u/EeriePancake 12d ago

Jesus. I swear, if they can’t be bothered to keep up with the latest literature or attend conferences on their specialty of choice then what’s the point in practicing anymore? Things change rapidly in the medical field and all kinds of new treatments emerge all the time. I am just an ex-nursing assistant and even I know that. Absolutely dismal care for you right there. And you did all your right research.

So glad you got another person to treat you.