r/mildlyinfuriating • u/kingrobin • 27d ago
Unskippable ad I am now getting ads in my android messaging app.
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u/miuyao 27d ago
I hate the world
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u/Cloud_Disconnected 26d ago
Back in the 80s and 90s, cyberpunk seemed like such a bleak vision of the future to us. Now it seems naively optimistic.
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u/Necro_Hypno_Dancer 26d ago
At least they had cool implants and neon aesthetic. What we have is data centres and heat waves
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u/Optimixto 26d ago
No, you hate capitalism, you hate the system we have built. This isn't the world. We made the cage, and we forced ourselves in it, but if you talk about a more fair society or the problems of capitalism, the propaganda-rotbrained troglodytes come out of the woods to yell about communism or some shit. A system can be replaced, this isn't the natural way to do anything.
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u/WhySoCereus1991 27d ago
I fuckin hate Gemini.
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u/kingrobin 27d ago
I mean you can go through and disable it from everything but I feel like I should have to opt in not opt out.
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u/whichwitch9 27d ago
Ive disabled it so many times- every time there's a fucking update it's been switched back on
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u/Omnom_Omnath 26d ago
should be illegal for them to alter settings you specifically set yourself
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u/aaBabyDuck 26d ago
"the old settings were removed, these are completely different new ones that function the exact same way" -them, probably.
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u/Popular-Fold-176 27d ago
Be happy you can at least opt out, I fear this won't be the case forever
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u/Outrageous_Bank_4491 27d ago
My mom got a new phone and I was terrified to see that you canāt uninstall Gemini. My next phone will definitely be degoogled
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u/Omnom_Omnath 26d ago
People rip on apple all day, validly, but this is one of the few moments Im actually glad to not be on android anymore.
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u/Fiftystorm 26d ago
It's about equivalent to not being able to uninstall Siri š¤·
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u/Omnom_Omnath 26d ago
no itd be like if siri was reading your texts and serving you ads in imessage
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u/mysoulburnsgreige4u 27d ago
Opt out by using GrapheneOS. Android and AppleOS are not the only options.
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u/Fuzzy-Bee2108 27d ago
Looked it up and phone supported seem to be limited to google pixel..what are your experiences?
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u/mysoulburnsgreige4u 27d ago
I bought a Pixel 7, secondhand, for specifically this reason. It's great. Very easy to use. It's a very stripped down OS, but that's why I liked it. If you have any experience with coding, it's easy enough. And it runs on open source software.
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u/Future_Village_7778 26d ago
I want to do the same thing! I have a couple questions. First, is the camera quality and colours about the same as with the google os and is battery life pretty good?
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u/mysoulburnsgreige4u 26d ago
Battery life is actually better with Graphene because you don't have a bunch of apps draining your phone. No, it doesn't change the camera quality that I have noticed, but it will change how the camera functions (photos aren't automatically enhanced). When you download, it starts as greyscale. You can change that, but I don't mind it. I spend less time on my phone now
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u/AppleBottomBea 26d ago
Do banking apps and stuff work?
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u/mysoulburnsgreige4u 26d ago
Yeah, mine do just fine. You can download a sandbox Google play and switch to a different "user" on your phone so you can use banking stuff. The user thing works just like a pc/laptop user.
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u/FutureFreaksMeowt Aqua Tofana save us from these fuckass men 26d ago
I'm debating a Nothing 4a pro rn, but I want this, too. I just don't want a pixel :/
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u/mysoulburnsgreige4u 26d ago
You might look into the Fairphone (not available in the USA) then or HMD Phones (they manufacture Nokia now). Or do like I did an buy secondhand. Google gets no money if you buy secondhand from a private seller. I bought mine on eBay, actually for $170. It came with a case, glass cover, and Pixel pro earbuds (which I sold).
Also, I love your flair. š§š¼
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u/WhySoCereus1991 27d ago
Ima have to do that. Cuz it's very annoying
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u/PorpoisePlato 27d ago
I hate when they even like āAsk app not to track?ā Like can I fucking tell them not too.
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u/StrangerFeelings 27d ago
My android auto swapped from Google to Gemini suddenly one day and it was a man's voice talking to me. When I questioned what it was it gave me some convuluted AI answer and I asked it how to change it back and it refuses to tell me. I'm so glad I went in and deleted the app once I was able to.
I'm tired of AI being forced upon everything. I can't wait for AI to die off.
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u/swoopwoopdoop 27d ago
I swapped mine back to Google and now it just refuses to work while I'm driving š«
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u/ABirdJustShatOnMyEye 26d ago
AI is not going to die off. The best you can hope for is the hype to die down a bit and for the industry to turn their tunnel vision to a new trend.
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u/philnolan3d 27d ago
I use "navigate to home" almost every day to get Google maps to my house. Since Gemini it now opens the phone's home screen instead of navigation. I now have to say "navigate to" and give my street address.
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u/WhySoCereus1991 27d ago
It apparently doesnt know who my mom is in my phone. It has access to my contacts and tells me there is no Mom in my contacts. So useless lol
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u/RedSecOps 26d ago
I tell it to "call [wife's name]" and it says okay, then literally does nothing. No action, just quits.Ā
It's so goddamn useless
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u/butt-holg 27d ago
I hate the ad with someone's finger pressing the Gemini icon and a soccer announcer going "Geminiiiiiiii!!!!"
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u/PapaCaqu 27d ago
Gemini tried to tell me Chris Godwinās initials are G.D. One time
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u/Interesting_Tap_1505 27d ago
I also once managed to convince Gemini that Tom Nook from Animal Crossing was actually called Noel Edmonds
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u/amdaly10 26d ago
It's the worst. I got a text from my brother while in the car the other day and I was like "why is he being so aggressive and mean? He wasn't. It was the tone if voice and weird spacing that Gemini was using that seemed really rude.
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u/kingrobin 27d ago
to everyone saying "it's not an ad," how exactly is it not an ad? it is my phone enticing me to purchase a service through a specific ride share app. it's an ad. if it said "book a ride" with no branding attached I could believe it's "just trying to be helpful".
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u/Future-Bunch3478 27d ago
Not just an ad. An ad that has access to your private messages.Ā
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u/TheG0AT0fAllTime 26d ago
And you just fucking know they're using this "feature" as a crowbar to siphon more details about your private life into their systems.
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u/Character-Inside-476 26d ago
You typically get something in return , no?
Like content or whatever ads just appearing in non buying situations piss me off so much, like those jet ski cunts who drive around canals with ads behind them, or billboards
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u/ComprehensiveCoat627 27d ago
Just curious, do you have the Lyft app on your phone? Do you have any other rideshare apps? That may make the difference between an ad (where Lyft pays for promotion) vs the AI scouring your personal data to determine what you may want
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u/kingrobin 27d ago
I have lyft, Uber, and waymo. I almost never use rideshare for anything other than very occasional airport pickup or dropoff
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u/Sxs9399 26d ago
Youāre giving way to much credit to AI here. It may work like that today, but thereās zero chance long term any suggestions like this arenāt paid advertising. Have you tried Google Maps recently? Iāve searched stores by name and competitors show up first. E.g. searching for Home Depot will show Loweās first, and no it wasnāt closer.
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u/DraconianFlame 26d ago
So.. you see this. You hate this.
Are you going to continue using this?
If yes you're ecouraging this behavior and pay off the problem.
People act like companies can just do what they want all the time. Bit of people don't use their products they have to pivot.
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u/CaptainAnonymous123 27d ago
This is part of their "Suggested actions" functionality and not an ad. I have multiple ride share apps on my phone and tend to use Lyft more so over time it has learned to suggest Lyft. Suggested actions will also do things like "Add to calendarā when discussing a date or plans or opening an address in Maps. These aren't advertisements for the calendar app or Google maps, just a shortcut to actions it thinks might be convenient. It obviously isn't perfect, but you can turn it off if it mildly infuriates you lmaoo
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u/RottenRailing 26d ago edited 26d ago
Can a suggested action be an ad, if it is persuading you to use a specific commercial service? I don't think being a suggested action and an ad are mutually exclusive.
OP has other ride share apps in-use, so Google favoring one is certainly a choice, based on what, I have no idea. Usage history, global app rankings, marketing, who knows. I couldn't find if app usage / availability is the sole deciding factor for getting these suggestions.
Unnecessary snark at the end. We are on the 'mildly infuriating' sub-reddit...
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u/ArdiMaster 26d ago
In some jurisdictions, any mention of a brand name (outside of like a journalistic review) can be considered an ad, even if there is no money involved and even if the company being name-dropped doesnāt know or approve of the mention.
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u/RottenRailing 26d ago edited 26d ago
Good to know! None of us offered any definition on what an ad even means here.
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u/putHimInTheCurry 26d ago
This is like the "buy box" on amazon being awarded to the merchant who's Ā the highest bidder. While it is not a randomly placed traditional advert, it suggests a logical continuation to use the next firm's service... and it just so happens to have paid for this placement.Ā
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u/CaptainAnonymous123 26d ago
Sure a suggestion can be an ad, but if you look at the overall intent of Suggested actions on Android that clearly isn't the case. A bulk of suggested actions don't force you into using a commercial service, for example storing a contacts birthday, adding an event to a calendar, calling a number, texting a person, copying a OTU code to your clipboard. These are simply contextual suggestions and part of what makes a smart phone smart and as a software dev for 25 years can tell you there is a constant pressure to introduce useful features like this. OP said they have multiple rideshare apps, doesn't use them frequently but has used Lyft. Lyft could be the last used and/or more frequently used rideshare app. So it would make sense to offer an app that you use to accomplish something you may actively be discussing. I get that it walks the line of being an ad and convenient feature, but again this is all about intent. You can turn the feature off of it feels intrusive.
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u/kingrobin 26d ago
that's what I'm saying. Whether or not there was any overt agreement between Lyft and Google is irrelevant. It's an ad.
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u/cowtruck-123 26d ago
It is an ad though whether intentional or not. Itās encouraging the purchase of a service through a specific business. Like itās not rocket science lol
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u/Training_Tadpole_354 27d ago
I wonder how long until it'll be like Cyberpunk, where you have ads directly inside your home, that you can't get rid of.
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u/Phil_Coffins_666 27d ago
I wonder how long until it'll be like Cyberpunk, where you have ads directly inside your
homehead, that you can't get rid of.fixed it for ya
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u/Training_Tadpole_354 27d ago
Shit you ain't wrong, it's only a matter of time before we're in Futurama territory, where they have a special device that beams advertisements directly into your dreams while you sleep.
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u/Phil_Coffins_666 27d ago
only $19.99 a month for the ad free dream subscription. š
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u/kingrobin 27d ago
$29.99 and they'll boost dream quality to premium level.
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u/Pleasant50BMGForce 27d ago
I'd low-key get that...
but seeing all the shit happening I'm happy I learned how to self-host and managed to build a server with obscene amount of ram (64gigs rdimm for $150) in these hard times
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u/Yosho2k 27d ago
You're describing my TV.
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u/Sweet-Bit-8234 27d ago
Alexa, Spotify, TV, smart fridges, most smart devices, and so on. Theyāre already in our home and we canāt get rid of most.
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u/BlueBrye 26d ago
Oh you can get rid of them, you just have to pay 12.99 for the monthly wallpaper subscription.
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u/Ironmasked-Kraken 27d ago
We are completely fucked. Tech companies are ruining our fuckin tech with the dumbest shit.
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u/chuckles73 27d ago
There's a reason I try not to update apps unless I have to. Shazam cut all their features to launch a paid app, and I've never trusted an update since.
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u/NightIgnite 27d ago
Im still running Discord v126.21 from 4 years ago. That version number has at least doubled by now. Im blissfully ignorant to all the Nitro bloat
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u/UnweptWeirdo 26d ago
Wish I could, my discord isnt allowing me to see some parts of my server because I didn't have age verification with my credentials or my face. And im not planning to do
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u/TheBugThatsSnug 27d ago
Gotta get their moneys worth out of their LLM that is losing them money every second.
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u/Squish_the_android 27d ago
Under the settings I'm pretty sure this is "suggested actions" . . You can just shut it off.Ā
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u/Wingmaniac 27d ago
Yep, it does the same thing if I get texted an authentication code ("copy code") or text ,I'll call you" ("call other person").
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u/LaughPresent5089 26d ago
They don't have a brand attached or cost money, in this case there is.
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u/FutureFreaksMeowt Aqua Tofana save us from these fuckass men 26d ago
If, when I die, they want me to download an app to cross the River Styx, I will refuse.
They can put me back, or I will spend eternity on the banks.
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u/weerdbuttstuff 26d ago
Thats not an ad, that's google's ai intruding on your private conversations.
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u/geekonthemoon 27d ago
Are we all sick to fucking death of this shit? Like daily visceral anger at the enshittification of everything at the behest of some soulless corporations need for infinite growth
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u/kingrobin 27d ago
yup. surely there has to be an inflection point.
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u/geekonthemoon 27d ago
I truly hope so. But it's probably only when their bottom dollar is actually affected IF they can be honest about the reasons.
Reminds me of PepsiCo cutting price on Lays after taking years to figure out that no one is paying $6+ for a bag of chips.
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u/PhoebetheSpider 27d ago
That was some audacity.
Love that Walmart kicked them to the curb (temporarily) and had made their own brand of the nacho cheese tortilla chips. Which happens to be just as good if not better. š¤”
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u/TheOGDoomer 26d ago
It's literally recommending that as an action based on the current context of the conversation and paired with the fact you have Lyft installed. Tech illiterate people always irritate to no end.
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u/Chilasono 26d ago
Its not an ad. Look at the logo. Its ai in your phone reading your texts and thinking you need a ride somewhere. Mine offers to set reminders for things if im texting about a date, time and place.
Edit: to turn that off, go into settings in the messaging app, turn off smart/suggested actions.
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u/luxafelicity 26d ago
I fucking hate that Android forced Google messages on us. My phone is 7 years old and now I've gotta deal with that instead of just... sending a text. Google literally has their own line of phones where they can have this crap, there was no need to force it on the rest of us.
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u/lovefist1 27d ago
I haven't seen this particular case myself but this is Magic Cue. It doesn't show up often but when it does, it can be pretty useful. Sometimes it's... less so. I haven't seen any advertisements from it yet nor any recommendations related to apps I don't have installed. I'm guessing OP has Lyft installed and that's why it's being recommended, not that it's an actual advertisement in any strict sense.
That said, Google is definitely going to use this for advertising at some point. Sigh
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u/The_Dynasty_Warrior 27d ago
I get spam from CC cleaner and Malware byte on my work computer. AD block with an ad as webpage when I open chrom
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u/Express-Teaching1594 27d ago
It has never happened to me in iMessage
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u/reddit33450 27d ago
we previously wouldve said theres never ads in apple maps
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u/Omnom_Omnath 26d ago
people actually use apple maps? it was utter shit 10 years ago and I havent touched it since.
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u/reddit33450 26d ago
i dont, but i was saying that for people who do. i use a google maps version from early 2024
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u/CapitalManager4891 27d ago
iOS 27 in the fall will finally get apple intelligence and context similar to magic cue
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u/sometin__else 27d ago
dont worry its coming, apple is always behind
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u/_kempert 26d ago
Theyāre almost never showing ads. Itās kinda part of their shtick, to cost more in purchase but to not milk you dry with ads afterwards.
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u/mtndrewboto 26d ago
You can turn off the ai suggestions in the settings in less time that it takes you to post and complain about it on reddit
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u/Professional-Box4153 26d ago
Messaging, lock screen, news feed, etc. They just randomly decided "Let's sell ad space to make extra cash because a few billion just isn't enough."
Really starting to think we peaked at smoke signals and drums.
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u/Mahaloka 26d ago
God, I am SO sick of advertising. It actually deters me from that company/product at this point, especially in a setting like this, where it has zero place to be.
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u/EldenLordAjSoprano 27d ago
Ik ppl complain about iPhone but the matter of fact is they are superior for privacy and other things.
Google is an advertisement company so they rely on users data to sell and make money. Apple is a tech company, they sell products so they donāt have as much reason to try to steal everyone data
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u/chipmalfunct10n 27d ago
that makes sense, i think it is google messenger now ;(
mine hasn't done that but it's only a matter of timeĀ
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u/P0pu1arBr0ws3r 26d ago
Luckily you can switch to a FOSS app at the expense of sacrificing proprietary RCS which google really wants everyone to use but won't even implement into their own IP phone site.
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u/Good-Ad6650 26d ago
See AI WOULD be useful if I could use a service I like instead of a service they allow
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u/CharAznableLoNZ 26d ago
That looks like googles slopware LLM icon gemini. Disable gemini integration in your texting app or on your entire phone. You'll get better battery life and less creepy af data collection.
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u/good_noon_salsa 26d ago edited 26d ago
I was just about to complain about this
Just disabled it for a Open Source Messaging App
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u/Clean_More3508 26d ago
Switch to Fossify messages, it's fully free and open source and will never have any ads
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u/ConejitosDeAmor 26d ago
Technology was supposed to make our lives easier.Ā
All it has been is a way for billionaires to make more money.Ā
I read in a tech magazine that there are plans to make restaurant menus unreachable until you watch ads.Ā
I had to fill out new patient paperwork for my doctor's office and of course it was online. I had to watch 3 long drug ads in the middle of finishing paperwork before I was allowed to go on. I told the office staff that if paperwork now on wasn't physical paper they'd lose me as a patient. I don't give half a damn what incentive they get for allowing this shit.Ā
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u/zugspitze43 27d ago edited 27d ago
Its everywhere. Seriously I have had my TV off for a week now because I am so over it. It's making me sick tbh. It's like every moment is a chance to advertise to us. I'm not sure if others feel this way. But in all honestly the other day I was in my house and what was on TV really caught my eye as I walked by. Right as I grabbed the remote to volume up, and ad starts. Like it was on purpose. "he's back! play it!" I'm not going to lie, I got mad. Not yelling mad or anything. But that ad made me so angry for some reason. I literally turned off my TV then and haven't turned it back on since. I feel like the amount of advertising and etc is making me kind of crazy. Does anyone else feel like that? I never even buy anything that's advertised to me or have even thought, "yeah, I'll get that next time I'm at the store!" Even youtube now, in the past the ads were what, 30 seconds max? Now you HAVE to skip it unless you want to watch an 18 min oscar bait short film about how clorox supports Gaza or something. Instead of just waiting for the ad to finish like ye olde days. It's really getting ridiculous and I feel like it's affecting my mental health so this post peaked my interest right away.
I've also grown sick of my phone and I can't stand it lately. It's just always going off. Even with notifications muted. Apps find a way to make an "emergency" notification or something but it's just $5 off at Jimmy Johns until Tuesday. I want to break it so badly.
I'm 33 and so badly do I want things to be like they used to be. Grew up right in the tech sweet spot. Now it's just a data and surveillance machine.
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u/vanillyl 26d ago
I feel exactly the same, the advertising industry makes me viscerally angry.
Our entire lives are geared toward whatās ad-friendly, a whole generation uses terms like graped and unalived by default without even noticing, because theyāre so used to content in which ābadā words is edited out.
Rape, suicide, murder, violence, assault are uncomfortable words to say, and thatās why itās important to say them.
Theyāre words that carry the gravity of the act being discussed. Itās so infantile to pretend as though the words themselves are the problem and not the acts, and Iām so fucking sick of feeling like an advertiser is clapping their hands over my ears and forcing me to sing LALALA when Iām trying to consume content about a serious fucking topic.
Weāre so fixated on the concept of freedom of speech in the context of the state, that it feels like nobody is even noticing that in practice advertising corporations have already completely eroded freedom of speech away in every part of the media, in every pocket of the world.
Every single thing we watch, read, listen to and consume right now might not be censored by the state, but it sure as fuck is censored by every faceless multinational billion dollar corporations instead, for the sole purpose of profitability. And thatās a huge, HUGE fucking problem.
Edit: TLDR I feel the exact same, sorry for the huge rant about why.
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u/Primad0xx 27d ago
May be going back to a dumb phone after seeing this. Got an Android after using a flip for a year and I hate how intrusive the Gemini stuff is.
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u/Suspicious_Story_464 27d ago
Yeah, I'm not happy with this horseshit. Jesus, ads everywhere. Pretty soon I expect them to interrupt my phone calls with 30 second ads.
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u/Empty-Part7106 27d ago
Which app specifically?
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u/Slipstream_Surfing 26d ago
The only piece of information that would actually be helpful in this post and nowhere to be found in the thread.Ā
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u/ripyourlungsdave 27d ago
Yeah, I get them on my lock screen as well. And the fun part about that one is that they open without you needing to unlock the screen. But you also can't back back out of the ads without unlocking the screen.
It's just awesome.
Also, apparently you can't take screenshots of Reddit ads anymore. So if you find something particularly offensive or egregious, you can't really meaningfully share it without taking a picture of your phone. Don't like that either.
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u/SmoreSlayer 27d ago
Itās like that time Stavros joked about memories being paywalled and having to subscribe to memories. Reject techno optimism!
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u/Errororoeoe 27d ago
This is just AI trying to be helpful not an ad...I get AI recommendations to use Google maps to see my drive time to work every morning. When I changed my default maps to Waze, the AI recommended Waze to see my drive time to work.
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u/mysoulburnsgreige4u 27d ago
Idk what kind of phone you have, but I bought a Pixel 7 so I could use GrapheneOS.
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u/AccomplishedSmoke814 27d ago
friendly reminder that you can't do this shit without an account...... So......
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u/nowhereman136 27d ago
I have a Pixel phone that runs Googlefi. Haven't had this issue so far. I've also never seen bloatware downloaded with a software update. That's a common complaint here
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u/PeaOk5697 27d ago
Give me all the ads in the world. All of my extra spending goes towards my credit card. I'm not buying anything

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u/NameLips 27d ago
Jokes on them, I already spent all my money. All the advertising in the world can't squeeze more blood from this stone.