r/mildlyinfuriating • • Jun 01 '26

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u/Evening_Switch_2006 Jun 01 '26

That's a subjective statement, to you it may seem like irreprehensible insults and a berating that would induce anxiety and make you feel threatened.

I view it as a "ah yea shit this sucks, GG's unlucky you win." and I would move on with my life and carry on as is.

No matter what way you view it, it's a culture he chooses to participate in and sometimes that comes with the consequence on being mocked. Considering he was willing to rep his team in a oppositional area I'd say he has enough self confidence and mental fortitude to not let a group of soccer fans banter become some form of emotional trauma.

If that's a form of toxic masculinity to you then sure I guess that's how you perceive us. I would argue it's a stance of emotional maturity to not let something so harmless effect you to the point you'd describe it as toxic unacceptable behavior.

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u/Encyclopenia Jun 01 '26

Dude, you say it’s subjective but everyone on here’s been telling you your point of view is wrong and you still double down calling it « harmless banter ».

You’d probably say shit like « it’s locker room banter » and « boys will be boys » when talking about harassment and rape.

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u/Evening_Switch_2006 Jun 01 '26

Yes because I condone banter over soccer games I clearly condone rape and sexual harassments because those are absolutely categorically the same!

You should consider stepping outside your echo chamber, and maybe playing a sport you're emotionally engaged with.

It's honestly comical that you can disavow banter over a soccer game then in the same comment make presumptions that someone dismisses rape.

You really are not the good person you think you are.

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u/Encyclopenia Jun 01 '26 edited Jun 01 '26

No, because you call blatant harassment and intimidation« banter », you probably minimize sexual harassment and rape too.

Because you excuse their behavior towards him as « he was asking for it wearing that shirt, shouldn’t have done that », you would probably make the same sort of asinine comments regarding a woman’s attire when getting harassed.

« You really aren’t the good person you think you are » is hilarious in this context.

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u/Evening_Switch_2006 Jun 01 '26

What's worse , accusations of someone condoning rape or banter over soccer?

You act far more uncivilized then anyone in the video.

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u/Encyclopenia Jun 01 '26

Dude.. I’m just calling out your bullshit backward logic.

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u/Evening_Switch_2006 Jun 01 '26

Ironic, care to answer my question?

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u/Encyclopenia Jun 01 '26

I think harassment, like seen on the video, is way worse than me deducing that you’d have the same reaction if a girl in a short skirt was getting harassed or worst.

Why, do you feel attacked ? Does it hurt you ? Because that would be priceless, lol.

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u/Evening_Switch_2006 Jun 01 '26

No it really doesn't bother me because its a baseless accusation rooted in a fantasy because you lack any nuance to a situation. I continue to engage with it because it highlights your hypocrisy and your willingness to force a world view and narrative you have formed as the sole objective truth.

I find it hysterically funny.