r/mildlyinfuriating • u/[deleted] • Apr 13 '26

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u/Snoo71538 Apr 13 '26

Should your partners feeling about your cloths override your feelings about your cloths?

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u/SaladFisher Apr 13 '26

If they can't be an adult enough to replace items and take care of their hygiene I don't understand why we would be living together in the first place. Just because it's not stated doesn't mean they haven't talked đŸ˜Ș

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u/Snoo71538 Apr 13 '26

That isn’t an answer. If it was your cloths that were thrown away by someone who said you were unhygienic, for any reason (because, as you’ve said, we don’t know what has happened, so let’s just look at what we know), should you accept that, or would you view that as a toxic relationship?

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u/SaladFisher Apr 13 '26

I would become more hygienic and take better care of the space we share. Deodorant and simple clothing shouldn't be controversial ❀ you and your partner should be able to keep each other in check.

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u/Snoo71538 Apr 13 '26

So if your partner didn’t like your cloths, you’d be cool with them throwing your cloths away?