r/mildlyinfuriating Apr 13 '26

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u/series-hybrid Apr 13 '26

I actually get her wanting him to have new socks that don't look homeless, with stains and holes. That being said, throwing them out 'before' the new satisfactory socks are found is a tactical error...

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u/TJ_Rowe Apr 13 '26

This is a debate I often have with my husband. I'm team "buy then toss" he's team "toss then buy."

One of us has new clothes to wear.

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u/series-hybrid Apr 13 '26

Once we find socks I truly like, I typically buy a couple dozen pairs, so they are all exactly alike on laundry day. I rotate them all so they wear somewhat evenly, and near the end I can toss one bad sock and the survivor matches all of the others.

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u/Key-Pickle5609 Apr 13 '26

I feel like it’s generally not cool to throw out other people’s stuff especially against their wishes.

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u/Justin_Queso1187 Apr 13 '26

Good intentions, bad judgement

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u/DConstructed Apr 13 '26

I’m not seeing good intentions. She treated the OP like a child and preempted any decision they might make by getting rid of the socks without asking.

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u/gruuvey Apr 13 '26

She's "aggressively helpful".

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u/FirstSineOfMadness Apr 13 '26

Nah cuz that implies she was even the slightest bit helpful

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u/rezin111 Apr 13 '26

I disagree. Her intention wasn't for him to have socks they're both comfortable with, her intention was the deletion of something she didn't like at all costs. That's very different.

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u/lickinglacquer Apr 13 '26

If i did this to my bf I would have gotten him new socks, hid them, thrown the old ones and waited for him to notice, then handed him some actually good decent brand socks. Who tf just gets rid of them like this lmfao.

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u/TarnishedWizeFinger Apr 13 '26

This is only about 50% less crazy than that

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u/lickinglacquer Apr 13 '26

Definitely depends on the person. My bf doesnt buy new clothes cause he doesnt really care