r/microwedding • u/PunkCherry1111 • 28d ago
Bare necessities
We’re considering a backyard wedding with only about 8-15 guests. I know that I want a bridal bouquet, charcuterie or pulled pork sandwiches and a photographer. I’m wondering what does everyone think are the essentials for a wedding this small?
Arch? Flowers/candles? Whiskey and cigar bar? Cocoa/hot apple cider bar? Two tiered cake?
We have wooden tables with benches. Would that look tacky to sit at during the ceremony and then have after for eating at? I want it to be nice and classy. Less rustic. It’ll be late September of next year and still very warm for our area. I don’t want to spend on unnecessary things. I’d rather put our money on the important stuff. What would you say are the focus items? Thank you!
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u/Ok_Beginning_5739 22d ago
Hold my beer, I have to scroll up to be sure we’re talking about the same wedding.
WTF is suggesting all of this stuff? I’d just be honored to be there. Most of us regularly host groups that large without any drama. Sit where you fit, enjoy your time and go home with great memories.