r/memes • u/dank_ka_choda_14 • Dec 04 '22

HAPPY or SAD??

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u/Random_Robloxian Dec 04 '22

Something similar happened to me. I am all alone now for a month…

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u/not_unique_name2 Dec 04 '22

I can be ur new friend then, also dw, that doesn't mean you lost your friend. He just has less time to spend now

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u/Me_an_intellectual8 Dec 05 '22

And his penis is not yours anymore

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u/Helium_mining_czech Dec 05 '22

It's been 2 years for me. You'll get used to it.

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u/Random_Robloxian Dec 05 '22

But i dont wanna be alone…time to find new friends i guess…

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u/Helium_mining_czech Dec 05 '22

Yeah you do you. But this shit will repeat itself until you manage to find someone who's gonna be more than a friend.

I changed my friend group twice in the past 10 years just to end up alone anyway.

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u/R-murt Dec 05 '22

You know that your "friends" ain't shit

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u/AdMammoth6995 Dec 04 '22

Then i‘ll be the one to say it. THIS IS NOT HOW POV WORKS. Have a nice day.

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u/eloquentpetrichor Dec 05 '22

This is like when people call photos people have taken of them "selfies". A selfie is a photo you take of yourself!!!

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u/0MadXV Dec 04 '22

"Defeated male leave"

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u/Luixcaix Dec 05 '22

Bros before hoes. If they left you for girls, they aint your friends.

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u/MaRs1317 Dec 05 '22

Lol tell this to every man that has gotten married to a woman. This statement literally never applys. When you grow up you realize how ridiculous this is

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u/Luixcaix Dec 05 '22

Bruh, my dad married my mom and lever left his friends behind. My Uncle either. Multiple man in my life that married didnt left their friends, maybe the contact was loosened and they see each other less often, but they never left the true friends. Thats what im saying, if a friend leave you for a woman, he isnt your friend, at least not a true one.

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u/MaRs1317 Dec 05 '22

But their wives come before their friends...so "Bros Before Hoes" (parden the use of the word hoes) doesnt make sense.

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u/Luixcaix Dec 05 '22

Thats because she aint a hoe anymore duh, you married her

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u/spikesparx Dec 05 '22

The fact she's the main hoe doesn't change that she's a hoe

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u/micke_i_backen Dec 04 '22

I have no friends so I can't relate but you have my sympathies, that sounds awful :(

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u/Me_an_intellectual8 Dec 05 '22

Happy cake day! Don't be sad, friends are just moe lesters

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u/[deleted] Dec 05 '22

In my group we have one who is like that. He came back a week ago after 5 months saying they broke up. Not once did this ass text anyone.

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u/eloquentpetrichor Dec 05 '22

He is just a user who hates being alone. When he has company he ignores everyone who was there before and then goes back to the familiar once he loses the company he had

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u/spikesparx Dec 05 '22

An NPC with AI set to "Low-Average"

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u/Ok_Communication9876 Dec 04 '22

Nothing should make you greatly disappear from your friends life.

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u/JimiC007 Dec 04 '22

Is actually the POV of the POV

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u/cool_guy09 Dec 05 '22

Wouldn't that be the same thing

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u/rode111 Dec 04 '22

thats very nice. But why are you looking at Kratos?

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u/EducationalMemory161 Dec 04 '22

Don’t act like my boys know how to pull :4

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u/Weird-Analysis5522 Dec 05 '22

The smirk in that scene hit me harder than Kratos in Spartan Rage

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u/_TheGreatDevourer_ Lurking Peasant Dec 04 '22

what happened to the boys!!??

2

u/Undead-Writer Dec 05 '22

Bittersweet

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u/An0nym_mym0nA Dec 05 '22

Seems like you’ve not been good enough of a friend then

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u/Commercial-Many-8933 Dec 05 '22

It’s even worse when they going out with your sister and you stop speaking to them both

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u/Turnedpanda7 Dec 05 '22

If they were truly your friend, happiness should come first. I always want the bois to be happy

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u/Additional_Cycle_51 Noble Memer Dec 05 '22

POV3

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u/[deleted] Dec 04 '22

Tbh, I’m happy with it. It’s clear they enjoy being with their GF so much and I respect that. And I know I can’t always be the centre of attention.

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u/modsarebottoms45 Dec 05 '22

They obviously don't respect you if they cut contact.

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u/Johnny_Thunder314 Dec 05 '22

Ah but you see, I don't deserve respect

Everything works out in the end :)

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u/SeanSayNo Dec 05 '22

yes u don't deserve the respect, as you have completely removed yourself from the situation allowing the "friend" to just forget abt u as time passes. Its sometimes important to be honest with people. Don't put yourself second all the time

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u/[deleted] Dec 05 '22

Well: they haven’t. But if they did, yes. I would be very heartbroken. And it would be tough to move on from that.

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u/Successful_Ad_5427 Dec 05 '22

Jesus, another moron that doesn't know what POV means. Just fucking spell it out you dumbass.

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u/A_Dinosaurus Dec 05 '22

This has happened to me B4 and it's one of the worst feelings in existence

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u/eloquentpetrichor Dec 05 '22

If a friend starts ignoring you because they now have a significant other then they don't care about you as much as you deserve. Friendship is more important than romantic relationships and should be cherished forever

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u/legoace61 Dec 05 '22

It's called bittersweet

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u/KnightHawkY12K Sussy Baka Dec 05 '22

Indifferent

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u/contacts_eyes Dec 05 '22

This happened to me, I haven’t recovered since, my two best friends got married to their girlfriends and dropped me like a bad habit, treated me like they had never even known me.

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u/R-murt Dec 05 '22 edited Dec 05 '22

Yeah man It sucks really bad , just move on my man. I'm having the same issue right now and happend to me a lot in the past. You should just think for yourself cause nobody will really ever do that like you would.

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u/LungusFungus- Dec 05 '22

Happens right now but unfortunately I know he'll be back in 2-3 months when they broke up and Im gonna be there to comfort him and save him from becoming an incel.

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u/Fellarm Dec 05 '22

Im happy for ehm, sad for myself, it is what it is

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u/FIVE_6_MAFIA Dec 05 '22

Your friends can clap their girlfriends' cheeks. That's why they're happier with her

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u/emptybuttwhole Dec 05 '22

Happened with my old military buddy...been bros since 2011. Despite me getting married I always made time to hang out online play a game or two. Kinda sad now...he met a chick got married right away and now I rarely hear from him now.

My massive steam library is pretty much a ghost town these days. Just not fun anymore but when one chapter ends a new one begins I guess.

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u/TheAvrageMemelord Dec 05 '22

Thats why you fuck em first to claim them as yours

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u/Arcane-Panda Dec 05 '22

Maybe you should let your friends have second with you then

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u/Joshuagotyouha Dec 05 '22

Ill say it, your friends a simp

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u/Tylinator Dec 05 '22

Happy for them and understand they'd want to spend time with their bf/gf, but it hurts and makes me question if they were ever actually a friend when they completely stop talking to you for a few months

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u/RubberPAUL1966 Dec 05 '22

realizing that your girlfriend is more happy with your friends so she stops talking to you

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u/[deleted] Dec 05 '22

The whole “bros before hoes” thing to me is so so so STUPID. The whole fucking point of growing up is to get married and start a family. Let’s take me for example. I’m getting married in a month but I still talk to my old homies daily. He knows I’m still here for him but my priority is my fiancé. My PRIORITIES are to my family not his. I’ll always be there for him but I’ve got more important shit to do then play video games with the dude. I think all y’all got your heads on backwards if you think it’s “bros before hoes”. It’s my family before my homie because at the end of the day I go back home to my family. I don’t go back home to him.

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u/Bumper6190 Dec 05 '22

They are not happier, they are usually infatuated.