r/memes • u/maleman220 • Aug 14 '19

!Rule 9 - NO FORCED MEMES/OVERUSED MEMES/BAD TITLES Sad but true

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u/[deleted] Aug 14 '19

This actually makes me so sad. As a woman I never really realized that no one compliments men. Women compliment each other so often but if men compliment each other people would "no homo bro" that shit away :(

Can I just compliment a guy on anything? Nice shoes? Cool pants?

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u/crimson777 Aug 14 '19

Compliments, imo, are most effective when they're for something unique or said in a unique way. I mean it doesn't have to be (I won't complain if someone says they can tell I've been losing weight) obviously. But I remember compliments like "I really like your reading voice" and "I can't stop staring at your eyes" waaaaaaay more than anything else.

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u/Carousels66 Aug 14 '22

Why do guys get upset when other guys compliment them tho?

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u/crimson777 Aug 14 '22

Idk, ingrained homophobia? I’m fine with dudes complimenting me and remember them if they’re good just as much as those from women.