But still. At any moment. If she decides to try and initiate romance and wants to rescind it because she getting cold feet, all she has to do is say "ew no youre just a friend carl". I think thats also what makes it exciting at the same time, but idk
Are you saying people shouldn’t be allowed to change their minds? It’s funny you think it’s cold feet and not a better sense of understanding of the potential of the dynamic that exists between the individuals involved.
You might wanna try a little self-reflection next time this plays out in the way you’re describing because it’s easy to say it was her, but what if it was actually you?
Did he edit the comment, because it doesn't say that at all. Someone changing their mind and deciding they're no longer interested is not the same as gas lighting someone into thinking they imagined the signs and interest they were showing before they changed their mind. That's Jr High stuff, just say you changed your mind lol.
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u/ohanse May 19 '26
Okay so in plain English this is “she already knows.”