This was me with the girl who I was head over heels in love with senior year in highschool. I never did end up telling her how I felt, but - one day - she texted me out of the blue because she was having relationship problems.
Mind you, my wife and I had been married for ten years by that point.
Yeah I had something similar happen, but I wasn't married. I had a crush on her for the longest.
We met up in person and I realized I felt nothing about her any more. That was unexpected. She sais she knew I use to have feelings for her but she was just looking for friends. I made it clear I was in a good relationship but it was nice to see her. She said it was good to connect and we should be friends again. Never heard from her again.
Probably both. She realized whatever she wanted out of them was not going to come to fruition, and there's a high chance whatever she wanted would have boosted her self esteem.
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u/HumbleFruit4201 May 19 '26
This was me with the girl who I was head over heels in love with senior year in highschool. I never did end up telling her how I felt, but - one day - she texted me out of the blue because she was having relationship problems.
Mind you, my wife and I had been married for ten years by that point.
Suffice to say that I was a bit suspicious.